shefner
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I have to respectfully disagree. LOTS of DV's end in gun violence.![]()
I wasn't going to share this. . .but here seems like the appropriate place. There was a shooting directly in front of my house on Sunday night. There is a rental house at the end of the block. I left to go to the grocery store around 7pm and came back to about 8 police cars parked on the front of our street.
The story is there was arguing out on the street and a woman was walking with a toddler by one hand and pushing a baby in a stroller with the other. A man with a beer bottle was following her. He pulled a gun and pointed it at her. . .and she started running. . best she could with two little kids. And then he pointed the gun in the air and fired. She was yelling at neighbors to go back in their houses because "He's going to kill someone tonight!" They are the renters from the end of the block. He just got back from a tour in Afghanistan. I know for a fact that he had been drinking all day, because I drove by him and his near empty 40 ouncer at about noon. He waved at me.
I'm still a little freaked out because he has yet to be apprehended and I'm positive he was at that house today. It's been empty since the incident, but he was there today. He's a loose cannon. As my neighbor said. PTSD, heavy drinking and fire arms do not mix!
Please don't bash me for jumping to conclusions here about soldiers. I live in a highly populated military area. I have worked with disabled vets. I don't know if Jacob is the perp or a victim here, but we can't ignore the possibilities. It's a travesty what is happening to these young men.
Sorry for being so long winded! My point was that just because a gun was used does not mean it wasn't a crime of passion. There are too many DV cases where a gun is the weapon of choice. . . .AND we can't ignore that we might have a young soldier here dealing with issues that he never asked for.![]()
Because of where I live, I worry about all these young guys coming back. It's an entire generation. We have failed them. That needs to change.
Yes, I understand what you are saying. There are many DV cases where guns are used. I just think in many cases where women are killed in an attack by a lover, we see strangulation or knife attacks. Three shots to the head seems like something else in this case. I suppose I am speculating that Wheeler didn't commit this murder...I think Ms. Evans was shot cold-blooded style, three times in the head by a criminal--perhaps a person involved in drug production or someone making a point.
The fact that Wheeler was a former soldier does make for an interesting angle. But my gut instinct says he didn't do it. But the Lord knows I've been wrong before....