Regarding not bringing food, diapers and medicine etc. I think the comment from family is more relevant since they were reporting him missing after a few days. They didn't expect him to be gone several days and he didn't appear to take items to be gone several days. I took the comments more in the context of last we knew he was going fishing, he's been gone several days now, didn't take any extra clothing or food for the kids, and we haven't heard from him something is not right. Most people probably wouldn't even notice if he brought the normal items a lot of people take when going out for a few hours like a couple snacks and diapers.
My opinion only this is a very tragic accident that occurred while trying to do something relaxing and enjoyable. It's heartbreaking.
BBM
Ah, @Paige Franklin, the voice of reason and compassion.
Thank you.