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...If I am in such a state, I wouldn't want to be made to go on.
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I feel the same way, but Jahi was unable to make the decision by herself. Her parents made the choice to keep their daughter alive, and even though some might not agree with their choice, I credit them for doing what they believed to be in Jahi's best interest. If keeping Jahi alive with machines made them feel that she was still here with them, I hope they found peace in caring for her and loving her in a way that most parents will never experience.
Many years ago, when our daughter was in middle school (1987), an eighth grader at her school (someone whose family we knew from church) was involved in a bicycle accident that left him comatose and on life support. We had been up north for the Memorial Day weekend and learned about the accident when we returned. The following day, I learned from a neighbor that the young man had been removed from life support and died immediately in the presence of his parents, older sister (who babysat our daughter for a few years), and the pastor of our Catholic parish. It was likely the most difficult decision they ever had to make, but they did what they believed to be in the best interest of their brain-dead son.
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