Missed some testimony . . .
I reached out and touched his fingers . . . . he just turned around but didn't reach out in any way . . ..
he didn't want . . . out of fear of being seen . . . .didn't want anyone to know anything intimately . . . .is that why
Objection
Overrulled
WEre you there for sex with TA?
no
...
. . . . he would bend you over the bed and have anal sex with you
he walked me out to my car . . . .bags . . . his friend Chris . . . .my car was parked in driveway - waited for Chris to turn his back . he kissed me. . it was a brief kiss . . . .
half dozen times of intimate sexual contact . . . how many? half dozen - ok something close to that. . . . .
how did that make you feel?
It didn't feel good, something I kept ignoring and putting out of my mind - just ignoring
Did you ever feel you are done with this guy?
Not in the context you put it
Gee whiz . . .he doesn't even want to old my hand in public kind of thing? . .
What was the status of your relationship?
AFter talking I was encouraged to date other people
At this time yu were going to Aronburg w/Mr Alexander .. .
encourged to date other individuals?
certain type of individuals encouraged todate?
yes - he got more specific later on
did you go on dates?
yes
Did TA learn about these dates?
yes
in Dec or Jan
Jan
still living in Palm Desert - stayed there until early May . . . I think
dates take place in Palm Desert?
No in Pasedena
One particular individual or several dates
Two individuals - two dates
in Pasedena? Why
I had a Dr's appointent in Pasedena . . . . there is a guy sitting next to me when Travis was texting me . . . @ Super Saturday . . . . the same date as the photographs 11/11/2006 - this individual asked me out then but nothing concrete . . . .
at that point in time - given relationship with Mr. Alexander . .
just a date - I would not have felt it inappropriate . . .
We agreed to meet in Pasadena . . . his name is Abe Abdulhadi . . . . just one date . . . . went on another individual . . . went out on what turned to be more platonic . . . his names is James? Dixon . . . he invited me to lunch - had sushi - didn't get any vibes . . . .
Date w/Mr. Adbulhadi developed into . . . a sort of . . . . we were just on a date . . . it was different from the lunch date that I had . . . .
Did TA know of these dates . . . yes - he didn't know prior but afterward . . . how did he know - Ididn't answer my phone that night . . . . I went to meet Mr Dixon again . . it was platonic . . . . he invited me over to watch clips of the movie he was making . . . . he showed me clips of Pirates of the Carribbean . . we hugged and I left
Didn't take TA's call that night . . . he wasn't angry just inquisitive . . . lead to you describe fact you were with Mr. Dixon?. . . how did that sit with Travis?
It wasn't warmly received but I could tell his mood/tone changed
How did TA come to learn of Abdulhadi and . . .
both those date were on the same date . . . .
Was the date with Abdulahadi different from Mr. Dixon?
objection
Was TA angry over your date with Mr.Abdulahadi?
From tone of his voice he seemed upset
Was that different than mr. Dixon?
it was sort of cumulative . .. um
you mentioned didn't matter who but then later you said it caused problems w/Mr. A . . . I was sort of reprimanded because neither one of them were church members - TA only wanted you to date church members. YES
Why would you agree to do what TA wants?
Because he taught me about the church and I agreed with what he told me.
Jan 2007 . .. . you and TA officially became a couple in Feb 2007 . . . yes
how did it go from him encouraging you date other people to you and he being in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship?
a lot of things happened in that 3 weeks?
He hung up on me that night. . . . . I felt like I was cheating on him . . . Ifelt guilty - I expressed how I was feeling - while I was writing this email - he texted me you can see t . . . . .
did you ever send the email?
yes
is this kind of discontent led to you being a couple
not in that moment but a process over a few weeks
that process led you to being more of a couple
started us on the path to becoming official
officially becoming a couple - an agreement?
I went out to his house first weekend of Feb. . . we hung out, on internet, read books, hanging out, we each reading own books - sitting in oversize chair next to his bed . . . in his bedroom . . . .
Feb 1st, 2nd or 3rd . . . . you were @his house . . . why
There was no discussion about JA visiting there
That month he showed up @ my doorstep @ 1:30 am . . . when I met Dan for the first time . .. . so I thought I would repay him in kind the next time . . . .
rewind back to when you were in the room with TA where was Mr. Freeman?
we just made out; no oral/anal sex; clothing stayed on
I hit the road around 2:30 or 3 am . . . coming from Palm Desert . . . pulled up to his house . . . . he thought it was hilarious to show up at my door . . . . I thought what is he going to think . . . i walked back to my car . . . . .up towards the window there were lights flashing . . . I thought this was silly but I went back to the door before I could change my mind and rang the front door bell . . . TA and Napeoleon answered the door - he had a big grin on his face . . . it was cold out . . . he pulled me into the house . . . .his roommate came downstairs . . . he yankd the hood offmy head and said Well this is Jodi . . .
three of us went upstairs and got comfortable on the luv sacks giant bean bags . . . his room matetook one of them and Travis an I shared the middle one.
based upon the last time I was at his home . . . . I offered tostay on the couch . . . . he balked and insisted I stay in the bedroom . . . . stayed in the bedroom - sexual activity happened that night and the next night.
don't recall specifics . . . .I know same types of stuff we had been doing except the anal sex we had done briefly but there was none of that
The next day we hung out all day - he was showing me a museum that just left town - called body world - it had already left town, so we were looking it up online
Spent the night with him . . . don't think any sex happened that day . . . spent all day there . .. don't remember if roommate Thomas had to work . . . Thomas and Aaron ?
Did he hold hands with you?
If roommates were there we were just friends . . . . .
Was he affectionate with you behind closed doors of his bedroom?
yes
spent 2 nights, point in time became his girlfriend, what got to the point got to be girlfriend? . . . .
Am I allowed to say?
conversation about my dating life . . . TA's desire that JA not date other people - how was that received? a kind of light hearted conversation . . . . he was taking about JA dating life but not his. . . . TA clarified . . . . TA did not offer up information during that conversation but TA was dating Chelsea during Christmas . . . near Thanksgiving - they separated . . . it is in his emails . . . .
this moment in time - you became his girlfriend . . . were you happy? We had made a lot of progress over those 3 weeks because of his friends some things happened . . .he was alot nicer to me . . .
TA funny guy would make jokes a lot , made jokes toward me not very nice but they were jokes - I expressed that with some of his friends . . . they advised me to stop dating him immediately . . .
what he say to you?
called me a "





" in front of his room mate Josh Ward??
He then says "I am just kidding" . . .
we were on the phone when that happened . . . .
He apologized . . . . .
Converstation with his friends happened because I was there when he called me . . . .
Did TA call you other names in a joking manner.
Polianna - had long platinum blonde hair, happy go lucky, shrug thingsoff if negative - I brushed that off. . . . he wanted me to have braids . . . . he called me this in front of friends.
Porn Star





- called you that in front of friends . . . . yes
Issue . . . . the can of worms was opened when he called me that. . . . I voiced my concern . . .
open a dialog that led to resolution?
yes
Early Feb . . . boyfriend and girlfriend - isses spilld out on the table . . .
happy . .
became his girlfriend . . way he acted . . . around Dan, (2 others)
happy for that day? Something change rapidly?
yes . . . .
TA got up . . . we were looking @ the body world museum . . . fascinating human body - structure organs and he got up and straightened up his room . . . . . .I clicked back back back to look @ museum . . .
i clicked on his myspace account. . . it was inbox . . . I clicked on an email . . got her Attention . . logged onto myspace in early Dec . . . . little light flashed that someone was online . . . I clicked on TA's myspace . . . noticed a ton of new comments on his page . . . .there were a ton of graphics . . . there were lips, sparkly hearts and suggestive things. . . . we had not had a conversation about moving on and seeing other people yet . . .