She ABSOLUTELY left that drawing on purpose, IMO.
Passive-aggressive.
I wasn't going to respond to the post on the last thread, but this has me a little irritated. First, let me say that everyone is entitled to their own opinions, of course. Here's mine. :MOO:
It really bothers me that there are people out there who seem to think that the responsibility for the dynamics of their "relationship" falls completely on Travis. Jodi is an ADULT woman and is just as capable of making the decision to walk away vs. continuing to pursue a man she knows has no interest in a future with her. It goes both ways!
Yes, maybe Travis was using her for sex. Ok. Well, Jodi was using sex to try and stay close to him. Maybe she did think that he would change his mind and "fall" for her, but she could've given up and stopped having sex with him at any time. She even says in her letter that she knew he liked his "bachelor status" or something along those lines. She also says that she's not his "secret lover" but a FRIEND. It seems clear to me that she knew where he stood, but made the CHOICE to continue a sexual relationship with him.
Why is it TA's responsibility to end it out of concern for her feelings? :what: For all we know, he tried and she told him she was good with how things were between them. Anyway, my point is, it went both ways and I don't think it's fair to place the blame on one side.
MOO
It's painfully obvious how she was draining him mentally. So sad.
Is Travis' brother there? I haven't seen him yet.
I'm convinced the only reason I'm still alive is because my psychopathic abuser was convicted on a weapons charge and sent to jail for a year - after relentlessly threatening and stalking me while on bail. Once incarcerated he was charged with another, much more serious crime, that kept him there long enough for me to put an ocean between us. He's due to be released in 3 years and I'm already having nightmares and severe anxiety.Not only this but I get very annoyed with people who say "Why didn't they just do x,y,z?" Maybe on a NORMAL person this would have worked but Jodi is NOT. normal. She is a psycho/sociopath/cluster b's up the ying-yang. We have all heard of cases where an abused partner leaves the other, gets restraining orders, moves, changes numbers, and ends up dead still! Pieces of paper don't stop a determined angry crazy person. Being nice does not stop a determined crazy person. Being mean does not stop a determined crazy person. Yes hindsight is 20/20 but seeing the level of psycho she is I am not sure if there was much of anything that would have stopped her.
Please stop this before I begin to dislike you? I would have been much more brutal.
When she got back to Yreka, she felt like her old self. :what:
So she went back to AZ to murder Travis.
She felt like her old self, the suicidal fog had lifted.
So she went back to AZ and murdered Travis.
You realize a piece of paper can't stop someone right? Google Tracey Thurman.If Travis was serious about getting rid of Jodi, why no restraining order? No, he just kept making plans to have more sex with Jodi.