I agree. It was a very disfunctional relationship, on BOTH sides. He sent very mixed messages, but based on the phone recording, he appeared to really enjoy talking to her, even long after the sexual stuff. He seemed very torn in his emotions about what he wanted vs. what he needed to do. JA did as well.
Both made mistakes, neither deserved to die for their mistakes. TA was slaughtered to death 3 times over, JA wasn't. And here we are...
I have a feeling that when we hear the flip side to this storyline, the picture will be a little clearer. But I do believe that they were using each other, while enjoying time with each other also occasionally.
JMHO. By the way, welcome dallen! :seeya: