And how could Terri abandon her baby daughter? That's one thing we KNOW she did for certain. How many of us who are parents, step parents or guardians see ourselves voluntarily giving up baby in favor of our right not to incriminate ourselves? Of all the different parts of this case, that is the one that I can not get over. We KNOW she's done that, we've watched it happen. It's a fact.
How many innocent people would believe an attorney if they told us that if we kept telling the truth we would be arrested, so we should keep our mouths shut and lose our baby? And being given that choice over and over again through the years - your baby is now 2, now 3, and each year you know that you are innocent and COULD see your baby if you would only try again to explain your innocent actions to LE, yet keep your mouth closed and accept the loss of your child in exchange for living a half-life in your parents' house, a pariah, because telling the innocent truth MIGHT lead to an arrest, and because you somehow believe that even if the cops were totally unreasonable in disbelieving you, your expensive, talented attorneys MIGHT have no way of defending your innocent actions in front of a judge and jury?
I feel like I would fire even a very good, very high priced attorney who told me losing my baby was the only way to stay out of jail. I would be outraged to hear them say that an innocent person should abandon their baby lest they be seen as guilty, I would not believe them, and I would demand that they either find a way I could maintain my innocence while still parenting my child, or fire them and find another attorney.
All of Terri's experience with the courts have worked in her favor - even the DUI she got, she didn't do jail time and she was still allowed to drive and keep her license. She has been given child support from men who aren't the father of her child. She has no reason to think an innocent person would be railroaded in court. Yes she might believe that LE for some reason has it out for her and is focused unfairly on her and she could no longer get fair treatment from them, but would she really believe that with all the cards on the table and her own attorneys working diligently to prove all the perfectly innocent things she did that day - while also working hard to identify all the people who saw "the real kidnapper" - all of that wouldn't be enough to convince a judge and jury? Weighing her baby in one hand and the potential future chance of an unfair trial in the other hand, and deciding to lose her baby *just in case* she was arrested and *just in case* a future trial found an innocent woman guilty?
No, just no way. IMO.
I'm sorry, I provided the source not the link but two of the sources were actually threads here on websleuths so should be easy to look up....even the one in 2011 has a thread here.
Alright?Sometimes I forget how old I am and miss it by a year or three.. Lol. But I gave the link in this very thread. I've been on this case since the beginning and I saw the clip of KH when he was asked could TMH possibly be telling the truth. he hesitated and admitted it was possible. he also said IIRC, in response to a question about DY blaming him and saying he should have known....that as far as he knew TMH had always been good to the kids. So if you want to label my statements as my own opinion its ok.:moo: Its been four years....I've seen a lot of interviews, Dr Phil, Nancy Grace, and various TV stations in the area. Just don't call me out for starting rumors. Everyone on here states TMH was the last person to see Kyron (no one accuses them of taking rumors from blogs) but it isn't necessarily fact. I pointed out in this very thread that on another thread or two here "What the School Staff and students say about the morning Kyron went missing" and another one that you mentioned in 2011 DY herself actually said that a man had been seen outside with Kyron and the source was reliable. KH acted as if he didn't want her to talk about it. My opinion of fence sitting is unpopular here but I don't deserve to be ridiculed about it because I verbalize my opinions just like everyone else.
Could you please link where it gives the info that he was a known wanderer?
Thanks
There were stories early on that he was often able to quietly slip away from the group. There was a photo that Terri took of his class when she took the baby to class for some volunteer thing. Kyron was missing from the photo and she didn't realize it until later when she looked at the pic - and at that time made a comment (on facebook?) that he was missing again. i think we all know kids who kind of quietly slip away and he appears to have been one of them.
I'm not going to go find that discussion but if you try to find the photo of the class with the baby in her stroller in the center of the group, that's where that discussion can be found.
Yes, I remember that picture now that you have talked about it.
I was very surprised at how snide her remarks were about him.
I remember the discussions in here on how clever she was to use the idea of him wandering off because of that photo. Kind of a great set up for a scenario.
If we are on the remembering path here without links, I believe I remember Grandma Moulton talking about how shy he was and how he would not be wandering around outside. Anyone remember that quote?
Yes, I remember that picture now that you have talked about it.
I was very surprised at how snide her remarks were about him.
I remember the discussions in here on how clever she was to use the idea of him wandering off because of that photo. Kind of a great set up for a scenario.
If we are on the remembering path here without links, I believe I remember Grandma Moulton talking about how shy he was and how he would not be wandering around outside. Anyone remember that quote?
Moulton doubts Kyron wandered off on his own. It's just not in his character, she said.
"He's a little bit dreamy. He's a sweet kid. He gets distracted. He's your typical second-grader," she said. But he's no Huckleberry Finn. "He'snot real adventurous," she said. "He's a little timid. But if a friend wanted to go outside and look at something, he would follow the friend. He has a friend who he regularly gets in trouble with in the classroom because he talks too much."
Moulton said Kyron will not even venture far from his home in a wooded area. "He won't get out of sight of the house," she said. "He's pretty insecure about that. So I can't see him wandering off."
I'm sorry, I provided the source not the link but two of the sources were actually threads here on websleuths so should be easy to look up....even the one in 2011 has a thread here.
I think these are two different qualities we are talking about here. It seems undeniable - in the face of photo proof - that this child was a wanderer and could slip out of the classroom unnoticed.
That's a different thing from being an adventuresome "outdoorsy" boy who wants to go explore the woods.
That's not really proof of anything imo if there is only Terri's word that he had slipped out of the classroom unnoticed. There could easily be a photo where he's not without him being a habitual wanderer or even absent without anyone knowing that day.
This article puts Kyron at the school when Terri was at Fred Meyers, making it impossible for Terri to have taken him:
Kyron Horman search attracts 1,200 tips, but still no sign of the Portland second-grader
Published: Monday, June 07, 2010, 8:40 PM Updated: Friday, June 18, 2010, 5:23 PM
"Kyron was last seen inside Skyline at 9 a.m. last Friday, a busy day thanks to a morning science fair and afternoon talent show. Authorities launched an intensive search and investigation into his disappearance that afternoon and continued through the weekend.
On Monday, 18 certified search and rescue volunteers resumed sweeping the area near the school as deputies canvassed the neighborhood, handing out fliers and jotting down license plate numbers of passing vehicles.
Kelly Ramirez, the sister of Kyron's mother, Desiree Horman, issued a statement on behalf of the family thanking searchers and the community.
She said her sister is struggling to keep positive. "There's no words. It's unfathomable," she said. "You just try to keep positive. We firmly believe that he will be found. We trust in the system. We know that everything humanly possible is being done."
Ramirez said the most important thing anyone could do was print fliers with Kyron's photo and post them wherever possible.
"Kyron needs to be seen," she said. "Above all, do not give up hope, as we certainly never will. He is out there and we are going to find him and bring him home safe where he belongs."
Gates, the incident commander, said he was feeling closer to finding the boy "because we're getting leads that we're following up on."
"We're also eliminating areas that Kyron is not," he said.
Some tips have reached into Washington state, he said, without elaborating. At the same time, he expressed frustration that some people have called in nonsensical tips. "Since he did his science fair project on tree frogs," Gates said, "they'll call and say, 'He went to live with the tree frogs.' It wastes a lot of time."
Authorities had previously reported that Kyron's stepmother, Terri Moulton Horman, was the last to see the boy about 8:45 a.m. as he walked to his classroom. The two had attended a science fair, where the bespectacled boy with the gap-toothed grin posed for the photo now showing up on the missing fliers.
But investigators now say Kyron was last seen at 9 a.m. inside the school, but declined to say by whom or where.
Inside the long red brick building, Portland Public Schools spokesman Matt Shelby said mental health coounselors and substitute teachers were available to help kids and staffers cope. Twice as many students stayed home as usual, Shelby said, 45 compared to the typical 20 absentees."
http://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2010/06/kyron_horman_search_attracts_1.html
Amazingly, the Oregonian later edited the article to remove all of the references to Kyron being at the school at 9:00 a.m.