IMO, it's #2.
Lee will forever stand by, support, and do anything possible to help KC.
Maybe I missed something but where did he say ANYTHING about Caylee to memorialize her? He was more concerned to get his own messages out. Just my opinion.
100% agree with both. It's so sad that LA never even spoke Caylee's name. I think the whole family is ready to move on, like Caylee's gone anyway so we must unite around KC.
(And also JMO, but I think you can see when LA first began talking in "code" to KC - starting on July 28 between KC and LA:
Lee: Here's an FYI for you, so you can conduct yourself accordingly.
Lee: Everything is public record, including this phone call
Lee: Including, um, the visitation videos.
Lee: All that stuff is going to end up being released at some point.
Lee: I had no knowledge of that whatsoever.
Lee: Um, there's obviously some things that I may have asked in -- that I would have asked in a different way.
Also, from that same conversation, I never have understood this comment either:
Lee: I still want you to be able to know that you can -- you can call me, and I'll try to, you know, get as much out there as I can
before anything would ever die.) :waitasec: