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As a hairstylist for 14 years I know that there are people in this world that think that just getting your hair done will make everything all better. A woman could lose her entire family in a house fire and be neglecting her appearance as she grieves and at some point in time someone who cares about her is going to insist that she go and get her hair done and it's going to make her feel so much better. They may even drag her kicking and screaming to a stylist.
Generally they do tend to relax and put their concerns away for the short period of time that they are at the salon and when a person is under tons of stress even an hour of a break from some of that stress is a huge break for them.
Besides, if she wasn't keeping herself up people would be saying what a slob she was and that she probably didn't take any better care of Lisa than she did herself.:floorlaugh:
Thank you for your thoughtful post. I haven't watched any of today's media coverage and can't comment on DB's new do, but I don't have a problem with her having spent a little time having her hair done. Despite the gravity of the situation, life marches on, and personal care and hygiene are important in making someone feel better.
This might sound like an odd comparison, but I remember when my dad passed away, my mom asked me to go to the local department store for white stockings for both of my younger sisters because she didn't want them to wear their sandals without stockings for the funeral. I wondered if it was appropriate for me to go shopping during this sad time, but Mom had asked me to do this, so I went. In her grief, my mom was still thinking about her children and didn't want relatives to think anyone's attire inappropriate. They did anyway

Ya do what ya gotta do. jmo