My young adult son is a Air Force Veteran. Last month, on July 21...just one day before his 27th birthday, he attempted suicide. A friend contacted our daughter through Facebook...and then our daughter called us, letting us know that the friend thought something was very bad wrong since she had been texting with our youngest son and he was threatening to hurt himself.
We don't live far from his apartment...about 2 miles. My husband jumped in his truck and went flying over there. Our son cut his wrists/arms...and then tried to jump over his balcony, while my husband did his best to single-handedly hold onto him until authorities could arrive for help. After they put our son in the ambulance, my husband rushed home to pick me up so we could go to the hospital together. He was covered in our son's blood. I can't even explain what that feels like. To be truthful, I was numb all over...the incident seemed surreal as it was unfolding.
The pain and agony of that day will forever be with me. Fortunately, after a few days in the VA hospital plus some medication adjustments our son was acting much more like himself. After his release, he was able to stay in his apartment by himself but he was very thoughtful of our concerns. He called several times a day to check in with us and came to see us each evening to let us know he was feeling better. Still, our son has rough days and we are always on edge.
I can't imagine what I would do if someone cheered him on to take his life.....I might be out of mind enough to kill someone! Of course, that is not the right approach at all. But I can only imagine the pain that Conrad's family is feeling, even now. I am sure they have immense sadness, loss and a palpable sense of anger.
What infuriates me is how this the girl's parents have defended her! How dare they?! (And her lawyer...ugh! But of course, that is his job.) The only feeling worse than having a son who is deceased would be the feeling that girl's parents should experience. How shameful! They should be ostracized from their community indefinitely. I can't imagine if SHE was my child....and I had to live with what she did. I pray she dreams of Conrad every night..and her parents as well. That would be hell on earth.