If she was severely depressed, enough to hurt herself I would think someone would notice something. The daughter and sil remarked Sandra was happy to have her own place. I think she went from being a wife to staying with her father after the divorce was q choice. Here she was in her early forties and decided a career option wasn't for her. It said this basically in the podcast. People that are depressed enough to hurt themselves aren't up to par with daily activity. everything is chore. Yes she could have had slight depression but like the Sil remarked, its hard not to if you call being sad about the loss of your father etc. We all have been there. She was on her own. Finances handled by her daughter is completely understandable of she never had to be responsible like that. She didn't have that kind of drive. Again the sil remarked about that. This was Sandras life and it didn't necessarily mean she was depressed. As far as planning, Sandra needed pricing to get her car in the shop. Not likely to plan suicide. To be taken care of because she went from married to living with father... Didn't pursue career etc. Makes sense. She never bought a house on her own, never needed a bank account. Why? She was content with the way her life was and once on her own it was better. Sandras had a house paid for by the sale of her fathers property, money in the bank and grandkids. There were other issues in the family that may be why Sandra is gone missing. Btw there is no stigma fixing depression from me but I watch my kids and they would love me to tidy uo there house, make there bed everyday, help them with the mundane, but it doesn't mean they are depressed. I don't do it so they can learn on there own how to survive and carve bout the life they want. 2 are over ambitious and one could Care less about finances, owning a home...wants to live with mommy and daddy forever or until they get married but one thing is for sure, she is finishing co!lege and her part time summer job is a must and yes, I manage her bills for now but that means she pays for her cat insurance etc. Sandra didn't have that and by the time she was divorced..in her forties she wasn't pursuing a career. Imo
My correction of your assumptions on depression is not because I believe Sandra committed suicide, though I do think it is a possibility. It is in order to introduce fact-based
information into the situation.
You wrote: This was Sandras life and it didn't necessarily mean she was depressed.
My point is, her family is telling us in a MSM interview that she WAS depressed. And furthermore, they decided at one point to deny it and at a later point to open up about it. I find that sequence of events interesting. You keep denying that she was depressed. To me, it is less important whether she would or would not have had a clinical diagnosis of depression than what her family has to say about it.
What else did they originally deny, or omit, that could shed light on her disappearance?