And remember, the Maryland offenses were primarily 4th degrees. The aunt would have needed to access the Delaware/specific county court system database to view the higher-degree offenses.
And...Shoot I live in Texas I wouldnt know what database to use for what or where to look unless I was actually looking for someone in prison. I had no clue that you could find arrest records much less where to find them. Most databases from what i've been told cost money. Some are free. Most people have no idea what a 2nd, 3rd degree assault even means in their state or sexual battery. Then, what if she didnt have a computer??? Then what??
This guy had a myriad of offenses but none of them scream child molester murderer to me. I'm not versed in violent offenses, unless it's robbery or drug charges and i'm way way out of the norm. Average joe/joanne has no clue what any other that means and are too lazy/uneducated to wade thru legal jargon to find out.
Then there is the buzz that she dumped the guy!!! I just need more info before I say bad things about her.
Then once again there is the notion that children are doomed to forever to be taken care by the mom while daddy get to shack up with another chick and father countless babies with no care in the world as to who is raising them. Nope, not falling for it. Dads are to blame to. The women that choose the losers. the monster that hurts them and the dad's that are somehow not called to task for letting it happen as well.
Just cause i'm a female doesnt mean I should schlep the burden of raising a kid. I swear if these women would start leaving these kids on the mans door step then it would be a whole different story. A women ditches a kid and she is the worst thing in the world. Man gets chick preggers and leaves and its o.k. or even almost expected nowdays. No biggie. My god....
The gender bias goes hand and hand with why the laws arent that stiff for SO. Most of the SO are men. Even in our day and age the sexualization of girls is common place and accepted. its all about attitude and society making











"normal". Attitudes toward women have changed. Deal drugs and you get 20 years. Rape a kid or a woman and be out in 5.
Most single parent families are headed by women. Social Services are helping out mostly women and kids. Dad left and mom is struggling. If more men struggled with trying to hold onto their family and had kids in their custody taken away from them or murdered by a woman while in their care, the Laws would reflect a serious change IMO. If the tables were turned and woman were the majority of SO then those crazy broads would be in jail for a long time. Also, if people didnt see sex as some sort of badge of honor or bragging right for men then things would change too IMO.
Ok im off my soap box for now...