I understand totally how you both feel about this. You might feel differently also if you were the main suspect from the beginning. Especially if you were innocent.
--Jake
Here's the problem: You might HOPE that but you, as an outsider, don't KNOW that.
I have the great misfortune to be closely connected to a family who has a son that committed a murder. The family is devastated but they have not tried to sidestep the fact that their son committed a horrible crime. He could be facing the death penalty which absolutely breaks my heart (considering that I do not believe in the death penalty).
To their credit, the family supports their son but they do not support his act. He will serve whatever penalty the court imposes, including the possibility of death.
I can relate on this level, Jake. It hurts to know that someone you know could do this. Accepting it is tough.