fran
Former Member
In all seriousness though, we sometimes use our life experience to help us with our sleuthing. FWIW, and it happened 34 years ago but:
My first husband was killed while I was out of town, more than three hundred miles away. My FIL and my bro and his gf drove all the way there to tell me and take me and my 3 mos old son home. The news reports were out on tv and newspaper, but not giving the victim's name during the first reports
Where do you think I stayed for the first two weeks afterwards? With my FIL, although my family lived just a few miles away.
I was with my husband's family day in and day out for two weeks afterwards. Of course my family came over, but I stayed with my husband's dad and extended family.
That's how a grieving family acts, IMHO. They stick together in their grief. That is, if there's nothing to hide.
fran
My first husband was killed while I was out of town, more than three hundred miles away. My FIL and my bro and his gf drove all the way there to tell me and take me and my 3 mos old son home. The news reports were out on tv and newspaper, but not giving the victim's name during the first reports
Where do you think I stayed for the first two weeks afterwards? With my FIL, although my family lived just a few miles away.
I was with my husband's family day in and day out for two weeks afterwards. Of course my family came over, but I stayed with my husband's dad and extended family.
That's how a grieving family acts, IMHO. They stick together in their grief. That is, if there's nothing to hide.

fran