MaxManning
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I just finished a book similar to this theory.
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writing or reading?

I just finished a book similar to this theory.
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If you get a chance google statement analysis. There is not one for Toni's case but it is fascinating to read how typical language flows. I have read through analysis's before on other cases and the questioning of the wording of the mother is right on.
I don't find the analysis of Toni's mom's word choices to be helpful. She's grappling with what could be a tragic loss, and is probably having trouble just thinking straight. I'm inclined to cut her a ton of slack.
Yeah, she spoke quite a bit about how much she liked dancing. But perhaps she got tired of it. I've had jobs before that I loved at first and hated 6 months in. The problem, invariably, is other people. I've read that the stripping world can be brutally competitive.
Here's a tweet from shortly after she started.
[video=twitter;677212964844404736]https://twitter.com/Tonianderson2/status/677212964844404736[/video]
Some women, and men for that matter, love and thrive in the multiple facets of sex industry.
Yes they do. One of the problems with a young person stripping and being in the sex industry is if and when they want out, how does that job resume look when trying to find work? They would have no work experience or very little in a job not in the sex industry. Good jobs are difficult to come by and no work experience or gaps in working is bad.
True however she had a writing gig at the paper and had jobs in the past such as lifeguarding to pad the resume. Dancing is a night gig for most and many have other jobs during the week.. not all but many.
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Toni did write about going into Law. I got the sense, however, that it was driven mainly by a desire to please the parents. It seemed like the last thing she really wanted to do, actually. She loved working with kids, and did work with kids.
"I don't think I'll ever be able to long term work a job where I have to sit at a desk for 8 hours a day." - Toni (tweet)
Toni did write about going into Law. I got the sense, however, that it was driven mainly by a desire to please the parents. It seemed like the last thing she really wanted to do, actually. She loved working with kids, and did work with kids.
"I don't think I'll ever be able to long term work a job where I have to sit at a desk for 8 hours a day." - Toni (tweet)
About college and Toni not wanting to go but doing this to please her parents. I too got the impression she did not want to be going to college. I read one of her tweets saying she had homework to do but didn't know how to do it. I'm not sure if that was made when she was in highschool or in college. Also talked about using Adderall. One tweet she made was asking some people where she could buy Adderall, she had to be in court that morning, drive and wanted to stay awake. I thought possibly she had a learning disability had taken Adderall for it and possibly was abusing the medication. Maybe developed an addiction and possibly was using other stimulants. Could be how she got involved in drug dealing and was going with her drug dealer. Also having a learning disability could have contributed to low self esteem. This is doing some speculating but makes sense to me.
Toni had so many good qualities. She enjoyed photography, she was artistic, she wanted to write, had a passion for music and was very social. Added to what you have mentioned. Oh and she loved to travel. When I think about all she had going for her and the fact she is missing it breaks my heart. So much time is passing by and her folks still haven't hired a PI. Just makes no sense to me unless what we are hearing from Police and her parents is not the truth.
Yeah, I mentioned it before and have been trying not to harp it, but imho she had a big problem with Adderall. She mentioned it on her twitter quite a bit. It apparently is widely used and is considered somewhat socially acceptable by her generation. But it's an amphetamine, it's addictive, and it's dangerous. It could very well have been why she was in NKC that Sunday morning, either to buy, or due to an induced psychosis, which is a known potential side effect of overuse.
I considered her using Adderall as a possible reason she was in NKC too. I thought about how sick she said she was during the previous week, dehydration. Taking Adderall or other stimulants to make it through a night of dancing could have left her very ill.
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