... but I don't think you can be as happy and outgoing and sociable as people say she was, and be locked down at home at 19. even if you are changing your ways.
I respectfully disagree with that final statement. Oh, how I completely understand what you're saying, and but speaking from my own experience, once I was out of that part of my life and working towards a positive outlook on life, I absolutely flourished living at home with love and support of my family. I would have included my friends in that statement, except that those friends were all still in the party life. As you say and I agree, we don't know her or what was in her mind, but maybe she was relieved to have the excuse of home lockdown to avoid seeing those people from the negative part of her life? I didn't feel the need to lie to my family when I was out of that life and that was a tremendous relief (from guilt, from lying that can then lead to depression, choosing the wrong people, partying, lying...)
Maybe she really was moving towards a good place to be because that's what it looks like to me.
She was an adult living with her parents. Nothing wrong with that, I did it, too. But, it's their house, their rules. As an adult, if there was an altercation with her mother, the ultimatum could have been: 1) you're an adult, 2) you are living in my home, 3) We have rules here, 4) you chose to assault me, 5) I can press charges (not out of retaliation, but to get her daughter help no matter how it comes about, 6) as part of the house rules, you may live here and we will love you as always, and we will do everything in our power to support you and help get your life together as long as you attend regular counseling after your release from *probable* court-ordered Leah's House.
While it's possible she may have been hiding things from her parents, I don't believe this was the case after Leah's House. It does look as though she was living a different life - at least according to her SM.
All this is my opinion which is skewed by my own experiences. Just thinkin' out loud. In writing. On the web. For ever and ever. Oh, well.
