diphi
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Yes, that has some impact with me. I still find the 9:30 time odd. But that's just me. I base this on my experiences of when I had surgery and had a care taker and on when others have had surgery and I was their caretaker. In both cases the patient was not left unattended for more than a few hours between late night and early morning. We both were up early (at least 7:00 a.m.) to take meds which were needed by that time, ice was needed from swelling, patient is thirsty, etc. Waiting until 9:30 to actually check on the patient is just odd to me.
To hear something in the night, but not actually go and physcially see if the patient is okay is odd to me. If it's enough to get you out of the bed and down the stairs, but not enough to actually check on the patient, it seems odd. That is the whole point of having a caretaker for 24 hours after surgery. To stand near the door and assume you hear noises that you think indicates the person is okay, seems strange, IMO. But, that's just me. Perhaps other people do things differently.
I just intend to keep my mind open. I'm sure there is a logical explanation for all of the things that seem odd. LE may have already figured them out.
Do we know what time she heard the noise? As I understand it the master bedroom and the living room were on the same level. DH didn't go upstairs until 3 am. So, when she heard the noise she may have actually been sitting right outside (or not far away) from the master bedroom. She went to the bedroom door and listened, heard snoring, and shrugged it off. If that's what she did I'm sure she regrets it now.
But, how could someone get in the house and into KT's room without seeing D? A window? A back door? Or, were they hiding in the house for some time...waiting?
Of course, maybe it all happened after 3 pm. DH heard the noise but, again, may have shrugged it off.
I don't know...I'm willing to move on to another theory/suspect but...