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Good mornin, all.
Have there been any pressers announced for today?
Have there been any pressers announced for today?
Which explains the faked the 911 call too... making up $%#@ as she went along to the 911 operator.... saying she put Shaniya "down at 5:30 last night" ??? Stupid..:furious:Thanks Salem...
I was afraid of that. That means that she was still alive when the 911 call was made. :banghead:
I think they continued to use the one inside, hence the "backup" and mess that led authorities to say it was not fit for habitation.
I was taken aback in reviewing many of the posts on Shaniyas threads. The speculation about dialect is, in my opinion, counterproductive and illogical. While I will not entertain the underlying stereotype and overtones here, I was intrigued by these comments.
Since there appears to be a lack of diversity awareness and repetitive stereotyping of people of color, I find it appropriate to bring to your attention the comments relative to dialect changes when around people of color is demeaning and offensive to me, as an African American woman.
Put another way, the references to how he spoke / speaks in the company of varying audiences, followed by the reluctance to go there; insinuates a predilection of how one should act or speak; based on the color of their skin. Furthermore, the dialect that BL displayed during the vigil is a common verbal expression shared among members of African American churches and communities. It is not a definition of an individual and/or reflective of ones skin color. A Google search on the history of enslaved Africans and the English language dialect association will provide an abundance of material for use as an education tool.
Because I understand the complexities and anxiety associated with this case, I have attempted not to prejudge the overtones of these comments, which appear on their face to be filled with hidden meaning. As such, I do not find it necessary to single out individual posters, by linking to the associated posts. (If anyone is in doubt, a quick read of the previous thread (#15) will provide the answers to satisfy your angst).
While sleuthing the facts of any case is not about protecting the feelings of others; we should all be cognizant of the reality of the extremely diverse World Wide Web. Moreover, I am disappointed in the play on linguistics and dialect of anyone, in relationship to skin color; and am appalled to see inclusion of such at Websleuths. My primary reason for joining Websleuths was because of the level of professionalism that I witnessed here; in comparison to many other sites. My hopes are that we, as posters here, continue to elevate our level of professionalism and exercise the abundance of skills among all of us; and leave the racial epithets aside.
p.s. the speculation about ethnic hair and braids is a little off base also. I have NEVER done my hair or had my hair done, the night before and it doesnt take longer to bring it into a beautiful hairdo. I mean, black people are not from another planet really, were not! While hair texture differs among every race, the stereotyping about ethnic hair and braids and leaving it out is ridiculous! In fact, any black hairstylist recommends not pulling it up at into pigtails at night; but braiding or wrapping it; so as not to cause breakage or damage. And leaving hair out means wearing it down; just as she said no more / no less. Theres nothing to read into that! It certainly doesnt mean I is nasty! LOL NOT!
The uneducated guesses, i.e. speculation with no quantification, about racial issues by those who have no experience is frustrating because so many are stated as factwith some underlying reason for someones statement. Not to mention offensive.
Lastly, she was listed as black everywhere, because the only choice you have is white, black, Hispanic-not black, Island Pacific or other. I absolutely refuse to list my multi racial child as other because the country in which I live and my father and grandfather went to war for refuses to provide a legal definition of his race. And it wouldnt matter anyway, because the national code system, automatically codes any N, C, Colored, Black, or African American race as black. The 2010 census is the first that will allow a selection other than select a box and will accurately code race based on what is written. So, legally, Shaniya is black.
I must be missing something here, because I dont see where Shaniyas race had anything to do with her disappearance. While I agree with the potential jealousy and/or spite that demon momster might have exhibited, I also believe that would have been the case regardless of the color of dads skin.
She is a beautiful girl whose life was cut short due to, what appears to be a litany of circumstances. Does it really matter if shes black, mixed, biracial, white, Asian, or whatever??? Socio-economic conditions??? Certainly but that should not be attached to a persons race.
I was taken aback in reviewing many of the posts on Shaniyas threads. The speculation about dialect is, in my opinion, counterproductive and illogical. While I will not entertain the underlying stereotype and overtones here, I was intrigued by these comments.
Since there appears to be a lack of diversity awareness and repetitive stereotyping of people of color, I find it appropriate to bring to your attention the comments relative to dialect changes when around people of color is demeaning and offensive to me, as an African American woman.
Put another way, the references to how he spoke / speaks in the company of varying audiences, followed by the reluctance to go there; insinuates a predilection of how one should act or speak; based on the color of their skin. Furthermore, the dialect that BL displayed during the vigil is a common verbal expression shared among members of African American churches and communities. It is not a definition of an individual and/or reflective of ones skin color. A Google search on the history of enslaved Africans and the English language dialect association will provide an abundance of material for use as an education tool.
Because I understand the complexities and anxiety associated with this case, I have attempted not to prejudge the overtones of these comments, which appear on their face to be filled with hidden meaning. As such, I do not find it necessary to single out individual posters, by linking to the associated posts. (If anyone is in doubt, a quick read of the previous thread (#15) will provide the answers to satisfy your angst).
While sleuthing the facts of any case is not about protecting the feelings of others; we should all be cognizant of the reality of the extremely diverse World Wide Web. Moreover, I am disappointed in the play on linguistics and dialect of anyone, in relationship to skin color; and am appalled to see inclusion of such at Websleuths. My primary reason for joining Websleuths was because of the level of professionalism that I witnessed here; in comparison to many other sites. My hopes are that we, as posters here, continue to elevate our level of professionalism and exercise the abundance of skills among all of us; and leave the racial epithets aside.
p.s. the speculation about ethnic hair and braids is a little off base also. I have NEVER done my hair or had my hair done, the night before and it doesnt take longer to bring it into a beautiful hairdo. I mean, black people are not from another planet really, were not! While hair texture differs among every race, the stereotyping about ethnic hair and braids and leaving it out is ridiculous! In fact, any black hairstylist recommends not pulling it up at into pigtails at night; but braiding or wrapping it; so as not to cause breakage or damage. And leaving hair out means wearing it down; just as she said no more / no less. Theres nothing to read into that! It certainly doesnt mean I is nasty! LOL NOT!
The uneducated guesses, i.e. speculation with no quantification, about racial issues by those who have no experience is frustrating because so many are stated as factwith some underlying reason for someones statement. Not to mention offensive.
Lastly, she was listed as black everywhere, because the only choice you have is white, black, Hispanic-not black, Island Pacific or other. I absolutely refuse to list my multi racial child as other because the country in which I live and my father and grandfather went to war for refuses to provide a legal definition of his race. And it wouldnt matter anyway, because the national code system, automatically codes any N, C, Colored, Black, or African American race as black. The 2010 census is the first that will allow a selection other than select a box and will accurately code race based on what is written. So, legally, Shaniya is black.
I must be missing something here, because I dont see where Shaniyas race had anything to do with her disappearance. While I agree with the potential jealousy and/or spite that demon momster might have exhibited, I also believe that would have been the case regardless of the color of dads skin.
She is a beautiful girl whose life was cut short due to, what appears to be a litany of circumstances. Does it really matter if shes black, mixed, biracial, white, Asian, or whatever??? Socio-economic conditions??? Certainly but that should not be attached to a persons race.
Hi all. I have not been able to read everything - but I do agree with the poster who thought they were using the back porch as a toilet.
I don't know how it would play in - but I was thinking - if a child went out to the back porch to go #2 - and didn't have any TP - well it could get really messy. Then if for whatever reason they could not get back inside the back door - they may have gone around to try the front door - hence the poo there.
The blanket - similar thinking. If there was no functioning tiolet - maybe they just when wherever was convenient - like on a blanket - then they just wadded it up and tossed it.
My other thought is about why the dogs didn't catch her scent outside. Maybe they gave the dogs items that were not Shaniya's? After all she was wearing someone elses clothes and her blanket was in the trash. But then the dogs might have picked up that person's scent I suppose. Hmmn.
I like the theory but why did she implicate her boyfriend?
I'm not getting how talking about BL's accent could be conceived as racist.
Did she?
I thought a neighbor saw Coe drive out of the trailer park.
??
This keeps coming up as more members join in the discussions. The three people in the video are: on the left of screen Carey Lockhart-Davis, Bradley Davis, and Carey Lockhart-Davis's daughter.
http://www.wral.com/news/local/video/6409385/
This is not BL's fiance. I did read that this young lady with the long hair is Aunt Carey's daughter - but then I went totally link stupid and lost the link. I will on this night spend good time refinding that link to take this out of rumour mode.
Eleph
I agree with the BBM, ALSO: I saw a boy who loves his father.I also thought that clip was disturbing. The body language of the son totally changes. My fiance, though thought it could be a teenage boy's response to being hugged and kissed on television...kids.
IDK, there are so many twists and turns here and I think it will only get worse!
BBMWOW
I have grandkids of color and I am white, but definitely not blind to racial slur.
there have been no racial comments here at all.
No attack on anyone...And your post overwhelmed me.
It seems that people noticed the father speak with 2 different dialects and that is all it was about, and being he is white and he switched it was just noted. JUST NOTED.
JMO
LE definitely stated early on they had reviewed SHollow surveillance showing both the figure seen walking back from neighbor's trash can (approx 3 am) as well as occupants of mh coming out and looking around (presumably 5:30 am ish).arrot: