I know we have psychologists here on WS, and I'd so like them to give us some psychological insight into
Cindy's personality and behavior.
Actually, I have two reasons for wanting that evaluation -- My own mother was a Cindy, there's no question about that. I loved her, but she was so overpowering and dominating, that even when I knew I was right, I doubted myself. In later years, I ended up consulting a therapist about my angry confusion over things she'd said and done.
He was a great guy and witty, too. After three visits, he stopped me and said "I don't need to hear any more. She's narcissistic, and from the time you were born, she's deliberately made you doubt your own judgment and rely on hers. It did not matter to her that what she was doing to you was damaging and wrong. She needed to be in control."
Then he stood up and said, "With a mother like that, it's amazing you've turned out as you have. No charge for this visit."
Anway, I've noticed there are quite a few of us here who recognize Cindy in our own mothers. We actually know how shamelessly she will recreate reality to suit her own goals. I bet there are many of us who would like to understand what she's all about, psychologically.
If I'm wrong, just disregard this post.