NM - Alexee Trevizo, 19, Charged with murder of newborn in trash can, Artesia, Jan 2023

[nao]

Was abortion available to girl? Were abortion pills available?

 

[MissMalowe]

I think Alexee knew, but I don't think her mom did. Realize it's not a popular opinion/theory, but mom's "shocked" reaction in the video when the charge nurse (or was it LE?) confirmed that the baby was full term seemed like genuine surprise (to me anyway) and I'm guessing she genuinely believed Alexee that he was stillborn or at least not moving or breathing when he was born. (Which, months later, we now know via the autopsy report was false but its not ofd to me that mom would believe her daughter)

Mom's behavior or parental choices afterwards are strange though. Allowing Alexee to attend senior prom after lying for 9 months about a pregnancy....odd. Being genuinely surprised when the cops showed up at the house that her daughter was being arrested for murder and tampering with evidence....also odd.

 

[RickshawFan]

Was abortion available to girl? Were abortion pills available?

Abortion is legal in New Mexico, and Alexee, at 19, is an adult.

 

[RickshawFan]

I think Alexee knew, but I don't think her mom did. Realize it's not a popular opinion/theory, but mom's "shocked" reaction in the video when the charge nurse (or was it LE?) confirmed that the baby was full term seemed like genuine surprise (to me anyway) and I'm guessing she genuinely believed Alexee that he was stillborn or at least not moving or breathing when he was born. (Which, months later, we now know via the autopsy report was false but its not ofd to me that mom would believe her daughter)

Mom's behavior or parental choices afterwards are strange though. Allowing Alexee to attend senior prom after lying for 9 months about a pregnancy....odd. Being genuinely surprised when the cops showed up at the house that her daughter was being arrested for murder and tampering with evidence....also odd.

I think LE could have been a lot more assertive with the mom when they went to arrest Alexee. No reason for Alexee to keep them waiting, either.

 

[gitana1]

Yes, in the article Gardenista posted, her coach noticed, but Alexee explained it away by saying birth control pills were making her gain weight.

I ca n't believe the coach didn't inquire further for safety reasons, because it was dangerous for a pregnant woman to be jumping around like that. Besides, it seems the whole school was talking.

I was posting before I saw that article. It gives a ton of info. Yeah. I think her pregnancy was beyond obvious.

One thing about the article though is they give no information to indicate how it was known that she said she was going to name her baby Alex. In fact, all the statements in the article point to her denying the pregnancy.

 

[gitana1]

Was abortion available to girl? Were abortion pills available?

Apparently abortion is totally legal there with no restrictions. However, per Wikipedia, there are only 7 facilities that perform abortions down from 26 in 1982.

On another but similar note, from what I’ve read, unwanted pregnancies are higher in states/nations without comprehensive sex ed that includes serious discussion about birth control.

I think these things are probably much more common in families who don’t have open communication with their kids and rule by shame and dictate, instead of realizing that teens are walking hormones and need to know how to protect themselves and developing an open and healthy rapport with their child.

 

[gitana1]

I think Alexee knew, but I don't think her mom did. Realize it's not a popular opinion/theory, but mom's "shocked" reaction in the video when the charge nurse (or was it LE?) confirmed that the baby was full term seemed like genuine surprise (to me anyway) and I'm guessing she genuinely believed Alexee that he was stillborn or at least not moving or breathing when he was born. (Which, months later, we now know via the autopsy report was false but its not ofd to me that mom would believe her daughter)

Mom's behavior or parental choices afterwards are strange though. Allowing Alexee to attend senior prom after lying for 9 months about a pregnancy....odd. Being genuinely surprised when the cops showed up at the house that her daughter was being arrested for murder and tampering with evidence....also odd.

Alexee had a mirror-expression. Just as shocked.

Is it possible the mother is just a fabulous actress? I feel like there’s no way. The kid isn’t fat everywhere it’s just her stomach. And it looks exactly like a pregnant person.

Also, it’s interesting to me that the mom had discussions with her about other girls killing their newborn. I feel like she knew.

 

[nao]

Abortion is legal in New Mexico, and Alexee, at 19, is an adult.

Moo.. the girl/woman had options..that would not have to of been oked by her parents, also safe drop offs would of been available.. So seems this was an unnecessary situation...moo

 

[RickshawFan]

Alexee had a mirror-expression. Just as shocked.

Is it possible the mother is just a fabulous actress? I feel like there’s no way. The kid isn’t fat everywhere it’s just her stomach. And it looks exactly like a pregnant person.

Also, it’s interesting to me that the mom had discussions with her about other girls killing their newborn. I feel like she knew.

I have a feeling those discussions were in the nature of pointing fingers and vilifying other young women who killed their babies, not any reference to Alexee.

Still, I think the mom knew. After all, she had been pregnant herself at least twice.

 

[DeDee]

Just finished viewing the Full Bodycam: The Arrest of Alexee Trevizo as I'd try to stay away from this shocking tragedy. BabyAlex. The grandmother is overprotective. She reacted similar to AidenFucci's mom after he stabbed his victim, Tristyn Bailey, 13, over 100 times when she took his jeans into the laundry to wash the blood out of them. Mom's in jail rn for doing that.

I read the DM to learn Alexee is a liar. Alexee tied the plastic bag closed on her baby boy and his daddy still took Alexee to the prom.

"According to police reports, her newborn baby later died from 'entrapment' – when an individual is in an airtight container or relatively airtight container, in this case, a tied plastic bag, consumes all of the available oxygen until there is no longer enough oxygen to sustain life. ...

She told nursing staff she was not pregnant, had regular periods and was not sexually active. ..."

Alexee Trevizo 'KNEW she was pregnant and NAMED the baby boy'

 

[RickshawFan]

Moo.. the girl/woman had options..that would not have to of been oked by her parents, also safe drop offs would of been available.. So seems this was an unnecessary situation...moo

Since she was in labor for many hours (per her sister, she’d had excruciating “ back pain” a day and a half (?) before, she must have made a conscious choice to go to the hospital, and not have the baby at home. If she had him in the house, she ran the risk of mom overhearing cries and/or maybe she became frightened?

I wonder where Alexee was when her water broke?

 

[Hexe]

Also, it’s interesting to me that the mom had discussions with her about other girls killing their newborn. I feel like she knew.

And she seemed more concerned with her daughter being caught, than with her grandson getting murdered by said daughter.

 

[RickshawFan]

The other case of "New Mexico teen dumps new-born in trash" that Alexee's mom is likely referring to is: Alexis Avila.

Almost identical, and, yes, another Alexeeee. I bet the Artesia Alexee got her script from this case.

The baby survived in the AA case, severely damaged.

Sentencing:

 

[RickshawFan]

As far as the timing of the Alexis Avila case, the court segment was in early 2023, April-ish May-ish. The attempted murder was January 2022. So, the "script" would have been available to Alexee, just maybe not every detail. The preliminary hearing was in early 2022.

Alexee's mother might well have done finger-wags on this case before Alexee's baby-murder, but it might also have given Alexee ideas. She might have assumed she could do it better than Alexis, and never imagined she'd end up in prison.

In AA's favor, she participated and applied for every option for help (e.g. social services) before the trial. Alexee hasn't done this at all AFAIK.

 

[*LD*]

It’s weird. That other girl who was acquitted for killing her newborn? I believe her mother totally knew she was pregnant and was trying to get her daughter to “get rid of it” in some way without revealing she had been pregnant. Her texts showed that, IMO.
It’s like some symbiotic thing where the mother is incapable of acknowledging her daughter is pregnant and/or “impure” for having sex and the daughter is incapable of acknowledging that she defied her mother, had sex and got pregnant.

This is the result.

This doesn’t happen, IMO, in families where the parents have an open relationship with their teens and reasonably talk about sex and birth control.

Her mother didn't hug or even touch her when she was being served the arrest warrant. So cold.

 

[LadyL]

Alexee had a mirror-expression. Just as shocked.

Is it possible the mother is just a fabulous actress? I feel like there’s no way. The kid isn’t fat everywhere it’s just her stomach. And it looks exactly like a pregnant person.

Also, it’s interesting to me that the mom had discussions with her about other girls killing their newborn. I feel like she knew.

but Alexee didn't look like genuine shock to me
the mother did, she was maybe thinking this was more of a miscarriage before she was told the baby was full-term

 

[cocomod]

This mother knew, subconsciously or fully knew. Of course the daughter knew. She tried even after the murder to talk her way out of it by lying and saying she “was on her period” because of the blood in the bathroom. I agree with her classmates, she is a master manipulator that is totally used to getting her way. Mommy even tried to protect her when they came to arrest her and then allowed her prom and graduation. I have witnessed a parent that coddles and over protects a young adult child - it never goes well!!!

 

[squareandrabbet]

For that matter, did t her coach or teachers notice?

The DM article said her coach asked if she was pregnant and she told the coach, oh nooooo, my new birth control is making me retain weight.

 

[gitana1]

but Alexee didn't look like genuine shock to me
the mother did, she was maybe thinking this was more of a miscarriage before she was told the baby was full-term

I don’t think either of them was shocked! IMO, mom knew.

 

[Seattle1]

Yeah this whole thing is so weird. The phenomena in general is.

In the video, she’s holding her butt, as if it really is poop she thinks is causing the issue. And she went, willingly, to the ER. She didn’t go off somewhere to have it and kill the baby.

Is it possible that this teen was so deeply in denial that she actually thought the labor pains were related to constipation? And that she had to poop?

I notice that both she and that other young woman who recently threw her baby in a dumpster like garbage, have the same sort of childish tone. My sense is both were super sheltered and had strict mothers who would not allow them to do anything to mar the family’s “perfect” appearance, and were also simultaneously put on pedestals as “good girls” who could do no wrong.

I think these types of girls may learn how to be manipulative and act childish in order to avoid mama’s wrath.

Absolutely no excuse for murdering the unwanted infant since New Mexico has a Safe Haven for Infants Act. Under the New Mexico Safe Haven for Infants Act, you can bring your baby, up to 90 days old, to any Safe Haven site in New Mexico (which includes the hospital she gave birth at) without fear of being criminally charged for child abandonment. To be covered by the law, you must notify somebody you are leaving an infant.

In New Mexico, you may surrender an infant without repercussions at:

• Hospital
• Law enforcement agency
• Fire station

State of New Mexico | Children, Youth & Families Department

Learn about the New Mexico Safe Haven for Infants Act. CYFD's protective services provide a safe and anonymous option for newborns in need of care.

www.cyfd.nm.gov