Found Deceased NY - Jennifer Ramsaran, 36, Chenango County, 11 Dec 2012 - # 1

[cluciano63]

Maybe it was a question of not having a recent phot and she could have dyed her hair that day, lol

 

[enzeder]

A post made on Facebook regarding Jennifer's hair color. The post is viewable to the public.

http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=4387916168913&set=a.2163638643365.2119778.1018577045&type=1

 

[OldSteve]

Sorry, but it has no sense. If she had her hair done DAYS before dissapearing her husband has to know it and there is no reason for him to not provide LE with an actual description of Jennifer, even if she dyed her hair neon pink. What is more, Jennifer did nothing new to her hair, so there was no need to even mention her hair appointments. So there should be no haircolor issue at all. How comes there is an issue? And it's not just a mistake made by sloppy reporters, the information about Jennifer posibly dying her hair is available also on the Chenango County Sheriff official Facebook page. So who actually gave the LE all that confusing info?

Wow! Change of hair color just before going missing is most telling IMO - indicates a person is making a making a major change in there life or leaving the past behind and going forward in a new light...

 

[TripleA]

I don't think that it is really telling. I have friends who change their hair color all of the time - not drastically but enough to be obvious. That is not that abnormal and if it was two weeks before her disappearance then I doubt it is even related. It was likely just a regular hair appointment. If it has been within a day of disappearing then I would put more weight on the change. JMO

 

[enzeder]

I've just been reading over this older article again and I don't know if it's just me but GR's FB post appears more to be about himself than his wife. IMO. The part about how he's "given up hope that she’ll be found safe and sound" and also where he said he "started crying uncontrollably!" at Walmart seem a little odd to me. IMO

December 19, 2012

Excerpt: “As the last few days have been blurred into one long nightmare I have finally let myself reflect upon the past a bit, something I normally don’t allow myself to do,” the husband, an avid running enthusiast and marathon competitor, wrote on Facebook.

“Jen would NEVER EVER leave our kids and I willingly,” the posting continued. “She has never left home and not keep in contact within 2-3 hours via phone or text. She would never miss our daughters’ Winter Concert last night or her birthday tomorrow. I hate to say this but I have given up hope that she’ll be found safe and sound. The kids and I miss her so much, her laugh, her quirkiness, just everything. Today I went to Walmart and I grabbed my cell to call home and ask her a question about which item I should purchase and reality smacked me in the face and I started crying uncontrollably! That was rough! I am strong and I know the kids and I will get through this.”

Elaborating on the ordeal, Ganesh Ramsaran went on: “All I want is for Jen to come walking through our front door safe and sound and giving us all hugs, but I have lost all faith that will be the case. The helplessness and the not knowing is an additional nightmare which I can’t escape from right now. The lack of sleep, the loss of appetite, the stress of not knowing, the worrying where and how she is doing is a burden that I never thought I would have to carry but life comes with some curve balls.”

http://thedailystar.com/localnews/x1423436202/Officials-seek-leads-on-missing-area-woman

 

[cluciano63]

I've just been reading over this older article again and I don't know if it's just me but GR's FB post appears more to be about himself than his wife. IMO. The part about how he's "given up hope that she’ll be found safe and sound" and also where he said he "started crying uncontrollably!" at Walmart seem a little odd to me. IMO

You are right, it is all about him, may or may not mean anything. Could it be cultural?

 

[Hexe]

I've just been reading over this older article again and I don't know if it's just me but GR's FB post appears more to be about himself than his wife. IMO. The part about how he's "given up hope that she’ll be found safe and sound" and also where he said he "started crying uncontrollably!" at Walmart seem a little odd to me. IMO

Yup. It was what, a week after she'd gone missing? And he was behaving like he already started mourn her. I know this is very individual thing, ya know a behaviour in such situations, but to give all the hope after a week? Hmm.

 

[JaimeSommers]

I've just been reading over this older article again and I don't know if it's just me but GR's FB post appears more to be about himself than his wife. IMO. The part about how he's "given up hope that she’ll be found safe and sound" and also where he said he "started crying uncontrollably!" at Walmart seem a little odd to me. IMO

IMO, it's telling that he uses "I" 18 times in the excerpt you posted.

 

[nervous_nellie]

well, Christmas is upon us. This should be a happy time, im thinking this will never be a happy time for the children again.

 

[LivingJuicy]

I checked in all weekend but didn't have anything to add.

What the heck happened to her? The more silent it is and the lack of updates or coverage really makes me wonder about her husband. If they had a search warrant and found nothing and if he passed his poly, I would hope that LE would clear him so we can rule him out and move past it.

The quietness makes me wonder, sort of like Dylon's father - sort of like, we think/know you did it and now are trying to find proof. JMO.

 

[enzeder]

Search goes on for missing area woman

December 24, 2012

http://thedailystar.com/localnews/x1524999106/Search-goes-on-for-missing-area-woman

 

[Londonrraine]

~ Merry Christmas Websleuths Family! ~

May we all get some good news today!

Far too many people waking up without a loved one today...Let us keep them all in our thoughts and prayers. May we keep the faith, that good news will come to us all!

 

[OldSteve]

I don't think that it is really telling. I have friends who change their hair color all of the time - not drastically but enough to be obvious. That is not that abnormal and if it was two weeks before her disappearance then I doubt it is even related. It was likely just a regular hair appointment. If it has been within a day of disappearing then I would put more weight on the change. JMO

Ah, I see I didn't explain my thought well, to which the above was a relpy.... First, I agree with TripleA, but, what I should have said is when a gal who has never changed her hair color, and is married, and then changes it without prompting from her husband to change it, then something is up. Okay, I admit, I'm only speaking from my own experience, and don't know the specifics of Jennifer's case - if she has changed color before, or if hubby wanted her to, etc..

 

[Londonrraine]

http://cnynews.com/sheriffs-now-wait-for-forensic-results-in-missing-jennifer-ramsaran-case/

Not very specific, but LE is waiting on something.

 

[LivingJuicy]

I want to feel optimistic that she will be home soon.. but the more time passes, the optimism sort of fades away.

I don't know if Twitter sites can be posted here but there was a tweet (I don't use Twitter and am not a fan) - paraphrasing that Sheriff's now wait for forensic results in missing JR's case.

UH OH - what does that sound like?

 

[LivingJuicy]

I guess here is an MSM link -

http://townsquarenewyork.com/sherif...sic-results-in-missing-jennifer-ramsaran-case

Really no info but summarizes the tweet I posted about. So if there is no crime scene or actual evidence that we know of, are they possibly referring to evidence found in and around her home?

 

[Jilllian]

I live in this woman's general area. Very sad case, indeed.
A woman not far from her became missing last summer, and there was little news on her as well. She still hasn't been found.
As for dying her hair, whether or married or not, many women just do it on a whim, and it means nothing other than "I want a change." Sure can't know in this case. At least not yet.
I hope and pray this has a good outcome, but the more time passes...

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

I live in this woman's general area. Very sad case, indeed.
A woman not far from her became missing last summer, and there was little news on her as well. She still hasn't been found.
As for dying her hair, whether or married or not, many women just do it on a whim, and it means nothing other than "I want a change." Sure can't know in this case. At least not yet.
I hope and pray this has a good outcome, but the more time passes...

:welcome: Jillian. :wagon:

:sleigh: :snowman:

 

[Hexe]

http://cnynews.com/sheriffs-now-wait-for-forensic-results-in-missing-jennifer-ramsaran-case/

Not very specific, but LE is waiting on something.

Forensic results... Did they find some evidence in Jennifer's car, or somewhere in or near the house?

 

[Jilllian]

This is a stretch, buuut...
I've read some FB posts by Jennifer and her husband, referencing the BDSM/kink lifestyle.
I've also heard of women entering "the scene," married and with children, and then leaving their families, without a trace. The posts struck me, as I have a sister who did just that (minus the "without a trace" part) over a decade ago. I've since learned that it is a very strong pull, as "the scene" itself is somewhat of an underground community made up of an entire subculture almost, of people who feel judged if they follow their true identities by leaving their "vanilla" lifestyles.

I know...far-fetched. Just my two cents.