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I just had something kind of going through my mind... I'm not sure if it was ever discussed, but I'm guessing SL was raised Jewish (based on what we've heard about her family history), and BF/F, based on the assumption that he is Italian, was probably raised Catholic.
Does anyone know what the feeling was like in the 1970's about this? I know in my parents day such a marriage was frowned on by both religions. This wouldn't explain anything about her disappearance, but possibly why we get that sense of indifference from their families toward each other.
I did not grow up with any religion and have never practiced one, so I don't know if it was still that way in the 1970's. I'd guess it was, to an extent, at least with the older generations. My dad was the son of an Italian father and a Jewish mother. He never met his Jewish relatives until he was an adult, his mom was pretty much disowned by them for marrying a Catholic. I think he finally met them in the early 70's.
The Catholic side of his family was not as harsh about it, but there was still tension with them when he was growing up.
Bbm -yes, it was discussed - one of the issues was how, and if faith might have come into play regarding abortion views. IIRC: MMQC said Sylvia was raised Catholic but the Lwowskis were not a church going family. In the context of EL’s surviving the Holocaust - DH said – ‘Yea, were Jewish if that helps’. –(Something to that effect - paraphrasing DH). So, I think EL’s origins and faith were definitely not overt.
Interfaith marriages were contentious back then and I think at the heart of many elopements. One was expected to convert to another’s religion – raise children in one faith. The contrast is perhaps most stark in the Catholic/Jewish pairings – both very strong and well defined religions.
My Jewish cousins are from interfaith marriage –the Episcopal side of my family is pretty loose and accepting, but in the eyes of general public opinion, it was met with shock and awe back in the ‘70’s.