A friend of my husband is divorced and his children live with their Mother close by, but technically in another state. He is a devoted Dad, takes vacation days to chaperone field trips, coaches etc. Recently, he got notification from his Ex’s state that he was $1000’s of dollars delinquent in child support. His State had to intervene and show that actually he was a bit ahead. But this took several calls, documentation…a headache.
It was a clerical error, but it could certainly have caused suspicion and anger between the Exes. He did think at first that she had made some kind of deceptive complaint.
What if letters went out that seemed to indicate M was reopening the divorce case? Would that have enraged him? I wish we knew for sure if one of them reopened the divorce and why?