Listening to BIL , he states near the end something along the lines of ' if any one of us ( meaning family members) felt the threats had any validity, we all would have behaved very differently "
Firstly I would like to state I hope Rob doesn't feel any guilt for uploading the Wedding video because he has no reason to be
Taking at face value what he states leads me to believe there was many threats and the family had come so accustomed to hearing / knowing about them that they were precieved as empty threats and thought of as just words of a bitter man
I feel because monique mentioned in her vows overcoming previous unsuccessful love attempts this was something she had trauma from ,as imo a few dates were you weren't compatible would not be in the forefront of your mind to mention on your wedding day
If we really listen to what's being said I don't think guilt is anything to be doubted , yes he has the right to a presumption of innocence and the onus is on the prosecution to prove guilt but on the balance of the few facts we do know and quoting from Lord of the rings
She was 'his precious ' and because his desire to covet and to own didn't transpire ,it didn't matter what he did or didn't achieve in the interm .he was going to ensure she was never going to be anyone else's either no matter how long it took .