It's hard, especially in areas that are poor and from broken homes, to say parenting starts at home. I know that some of us are fortunate enough to stay with our children at night, or even all day, and see that as the fundamental way to teach our children (and I agree, maybe it is.)
However, the modeling, or lack there-of, of the family structures in low income areas leaves much more to be desired. We can not force the father to be involved, or the mothers to make more money as head of household so she can be there more often than not. Some things really are that far out of the hands of the parents.
http://www.urban.org/publications/900832.html
Again, I've said it before and I've heard the lines that its just wishful thinking, but...
If we stopped prosecuting harmless drug offenses, like weed, and took that money spent on prosecution and arrest, and funneled that money into building parks or recreation centers that had equipment like computers, books, and people that care.. I will bet 100 dollars that 7 out of 10 kids that walk through that door will be able to see they can be more than the cards they have been dealt.
http://www.alternet.org/story/47815/pot_prisoners_cost_americans_$1_billion_a_year/
There is a way, it's not wishful thinking. I have seen it in areas of Los Angeles where neighboring cities went up in arms wondering why we even go into these areas to try and help, because, well, "they are just going to destroy it anyways."
These areas are not filled with animals, there are children there. Lots of them, and yes some families do have kids to stay on government help. Starving in these areas leads to, well, again,
crime.
We cannot keep punishing the children for the fathers sin. I think as a community we have to really think better than that.
National discussion is great, I just don't know where my voice will be heard on issues of race. Does my voice even matter in the national debate, and what will it do? Will it bring together, or be more divide? (That's a serious question to ask ourselves.)
I'd rather my voice be local saying "Yes, we need to go in and give these children/teens another option than believing they have to carry a gun and act like a




." Maybe even the idea "hey, if we have this center built, is it possible that we can create a music studio so they can start making their own music?"
Imagine if any of these teens involved in this case had that opportunity to really produce something they were proud of, something tangible, like a song or that music video. Think they would have ruined their chance at being productive and potentially wealthy?
We can all talk all day long about this issue,
I do believe there is one so I don't want anyone confused on my stance. However, we have to start finding SOLUTIONS to go with it. We can't just pull out the reverse racism card because we are only going to reduce, reuse and recycle the problem(s).
It's time to act.
http://npe.educationnews.org/Review/Articles/v6n1.htm
[EDIT: THIS DOESN'T MEAN I UNDERSTAND WHY THESE TEENS COMMITTED THIS CRIME. I auto eject my sympathy/empathy from crimes like this because murder is murder. I still believe that there are chances to stop a dramatic number of stories like this if young adults are given the chance to thrive. That view will never, ever change.]