SeekingJana
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A few problems I have with " a weekend of fun but had a heart attack in the midst of the tryst":
1) While I can definitely see why he might want and need a change from ( IMO) plain and mousy Patti F., he wasn't married to her. He had no need for secrecy.
2) Would Ray Gricar have a tryst with a married woman? I don't think so. If he did, she was the one who had to answer to someone else for her actions and potential inactions. So where is his impetus for secrecy?
3) Would RG have a tryst at a B and B, for example, with a sociopath? Because only a sociopath ( and a strong-bodied one at that) would either walk out on an ill or possibly dying man, not do CPR, and. or dispose of the body and metal items in his possession which wouldn't disintegrate over time.
Nope, not buying it. And if he had a fatal MI and died alone, his body would have been found, I think.
I can't think of ANY scenario involving a non-criminal S.O. which does not involving summoning help for him, regardless of the woman's own circumstances., And YES, I speak from personal experience... When you care enough about someone to be their lover, you care enough to call 911.
As for murder, I can't come up with ONE scenario in which a DA with RG's experience could be " lured" to his death. Not ONE. Not from an informant, not from an acquaintance.
I've known people in positions higher up than his..
Here's what I know to be true of people who know their job is not exactly a people- pleasing one: They tend to choose to sit in locations in restaurants where they can see who comes and goes.. A hotel room has to be on a ground floor or one floor up, with working windows OR a second means of ingress and egress like a patio. The second door is secured with an easily removable wedge. They are always, ALWAYS careful about what they say that is self- revealing, usually preferring to say something like " Live in the moment" instead of giving a lot of personal history or family details.... They look in their car mirrors and take a few unnecessary turns to make sure they aren't being followed, and they stop and listen for footsteps behind them that stop soon after theirs do... I once dated a member of state LE who was undercover as an FBI informant. He is deceased now of natural causes so I can say this. I was remembering how naturally cautious he was. It was INSTINCT after a period of years just from being in LE.
I am now friends with his younger sister through Facebook and am learning ALL kinds of interesting facts about his core family that he never ever revealed to me in 5+ years.
IMO, if Ray Gricar was murdered, it was a clean shot from a hit man. The question is where did this occur?
IF he is dead, I tend to believe he did get out of the USA or at least out of PA to the location of his choice, and most likely died in an accident or from natural causes since then. Since I believe he would have fake ID, he would be among the UID.
One thing that I've never seen discussed... As far as we know, RG is not in any type of government protection program. As far as we know, there is no reason for it.
Some people turn to religion in times of personal stress. Is there any chance that he joined some religious order which is segregated from society? ( I had almost rather be dead, but he seems to have been a rather austere type of person, and he did walk away from his computer, his car and his cell phone, all the modern trappings of society) .. Could what was LEFT BEHIND be a clue ??
1) While I can definitely see why he might want and need a change from ( IMO) plain and mousy Patti F., he wasn't married to her. He had no need for secrecy.
2) Would Ray Gricar have a tryst with a married woman? I don't think so. If he did, she was the one who had to answer to someone else for her actions and potential inactions. So where is his impetus for secrecy?
3) Would RG have a tryst at a B and B, for example, with a sociopath? Because only a sociopath ( and a strong-bodied one at that) would either walk out on an ill or possibly dying man, not do CPR, and. or dispose of the body and metal items in his possession which wouldn't disintegrate over time.
Nope, not buying it. And if he had a fatal MI and died alone, his body would have been found, I think.
I can't think of ANY scenario involving a non-criminal S.O. which does not involving summoning help for him, regardless of the woman's own circumstances., And YES, I speak from personal experience... When you care enough about someone to be their lover, you care enough to call 911.
As for murder, I can't come up with ONE scenario in which a DA with RG's experience could be " lured" to his death. Not ONE. Not from an informant, not from an acquaintance.
I've known people in positions higher up than his..
Here's what I know to be true of people who know their job is not exactly a people- pleasing one: They tend to choose to sit in locations in restaurants where they can see who comes and goes.. A hotel room has to be on a ground floor or one floor up, with working windows OR a second means of ingress and egress like a patio. The second door is secured with an easily removable wedge. They are always, ALWAYS careful about what they say that is self- revealing, usually preferring to say something like " Live in the moment" instead of giving a lot of personal history or family details.... They look in their car mirrors and take a few unnecessary turns to make sure they aren't being followed, and they stop and listen for footsteps behind them that stop soon after theirs do... I once dated a member of state LE who was undercover as an FBI informant. He is deceased now of natural causes so I can say this. I was remembering how naturally cautious he was. It was INSTINCT after a period of years just from being in LE.
I am now friends with his younger sister through Facebook and am learning ALL kinds of interesting facts about his core family that he never ever revealed to me in 5+ years.
IMO, if Ray Gricar was murdered, it was a clean shot from a hit man. The question is where did this occur?
IF he is dead, I tend to believe he did get out of the USA or at least out of PA to the location of his choice, and most likely died in an accident or from natural causes since then. Since I believe he would have fake ID, he would be among the UID.
One thing that I've never seen discussed... As far as we know, RG is not in any type of government protection program. As far as we know, there is no reason for it.
Some people turn to religion in times of personal stress. Is there any chance that he joined some religious order which is segregated from society? ( I had almost rather be dead, but he seems to have been a rather austere type of person, and he did walk away from his computer, his car and his cell phone, all the modern trappings of society) .. Could what was LEFT BEHIND be a clue ??