I, personally, did Not feel like you were trying to shame SG. It just occurred to me that maybe no one told him "don't do that". I also believe the family attorney should have helped him more, but TBH it was probably the first time either had ever dealt with something like this.I agree that the gag order was not a punishment, I think it was for exactly reasons you state.
I do think that the Goncalves's lawyer should have advised SG that he was making too much information public, and I do believe the prosecution eventually asked/told SG that he could be jeopardising theor case and he needed to stop, but it is possible that they didnt think to expressly tell him at the time the information was shared that he needed to keep it from the media, and therefore the public.
My original post wasnt meant to shame SG, but rather to point out that even though I can imagine how hard it must be to be learning intimate details of what happened to his daughter with the rest of the world, when he should have been informed long ago, but unfortunately his earlier, misguided actions sadly led to the situation he finds himself in now.
Having watched the anguish of parents and a sibling after the murder of their child/sister, I cannot judge anyone for what they say in that situation. JMVHO.
Added NOT. I did NOT feel like you were trying to shame. My most sincere apology for that error. @Rolypolyoly
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