[/B] BBM. You have succintly put into words what I think has been bothering me about this situation for a while now.
It has, IMO, turned into a Circus. I have said before, I believe there is truth to many of the claims and I feel for those women.
However, again MO, this story has turned into a trashy novel. Dr. Phony Phil and Gloria Ambulance Chaser Allred
finished it for me. Everyone wants on the bandwagon in one form or another....(snipped by me for space)
I hadn't heard anything about BC or the BC allegations in the media until a couple of months ago, and would rather the media discuss cases like this than other topics. It's ironic because the media suppressed these alleged victims/survivors accounts in the media for some time. If allegations are true, then it's an important topic to bring out in the media. It's interesting to me that the public and media has no problem discussing sexual assault of women in India and the hurdles and exploitation they face. However, when the U.S. tries to discuss alleged rape/sexual assault case(s) like Steubenville, Sandusky or Cosby it's too indecent or immoral for the public and victims attacked. In the U.S., we aren't dealing with problems re: sexual assault/drug facilitated sexual assault that occur in our own backyard and allegedly by public figures no less. That's shameful.
As far as media circuses with public figures, I had somewhat of a problem re: Lance Armstrong case for awhile because I genuinely admired him. In some minor way I understand your concern about BC, although I think many people are uncomfortable with the topic of sexual assault/drug-facilitated rape in general. There were times when I thought that people were trying to character assassinate Lance Armstrong out of jealousy, money, etc and it was uncomfortable for me. However, I now understand people's persistence and the wrongdoing he committed.
It's just SO much easier for some people to believe BC allegations about money. For example, let's say with alleged victim, P.J. Masten, it's more comfortable to think it's not true, because if her allegations true, she was drugged by BC, likely sexually assaulted, and also possibly gang-raped because there were other men around when she passed out. Difficult to talk about something like that, right? And if any victims/survivors allegations are true, these women just lifted a major traumatic burden they carried and in the process educated the public about the crimes, little repercussions for such crimes, and about sexual assault/drug-facilitated sexual assault. I think it makes people uncomfortable, but it's important nonetheless. The media can be used for good and sometimes the good is just informing people that yes, the U.S. has problems in preventing sexual assault/drug-facilitated assault, so protect your children, friends etc. from assault and exploitation.
Maybe there is one or more alleged victim that is not sincere but it doesn't take away from other accounts. At the end of the day if even one or more of the allegations is true and BC isn't convicted in court, BC is a serial rapist and that's more concerning than a "media circus". But people see what they want to see, and not interested in changing mind(s), Jmo. And guess what? If allegations true, it doesn't matter if you or anyone else doesn't believe them because THEY know, THEY are healing from the ordeal and warned YOU, Joe Public, about an alleged serial rapist who incapacitates victims using drugs and isn't incarcerated. Always JMO.