Barbara Bowman Speaks About Bill Cosby Sexual Abuse Allegations
By Katie J.M. Baker 2/12/14 at 9:46 AM
Were you disappointed that Andrea Constand took a settlement?
I was disappointed because I knew that would shut everybody else up, including Andrea. And although I am grateful she was able to have closure for her own growth, it sends the message to other victims that they can be shut up.
http://www.newsweek.com/barbara-bowman-speaks-about-bill-cosby-sexual-abuse-allegations-228837
Ex-prosecutor wanted to charge Bill Cosby but lacked evidence
'I couldn't check her blood'
Castor, who was the district attorney for Montgomery County, Pennsylvania, when Constand came forward in 2005, now tells CNN he thought Constand was credible, and he thought Cosby was evasive in his interview with prosecutors. Castor, whose assistants interviewed Cosby, said he felt the comedian was setting up a defense that Constand was at his house on her own volition and that anything occurring between them was consensual.
"Back then, the desire on our part to move forward was pretty strong," he said. "The problem with the case was she waited a year until she told police about it."
Since 2005, several women have come forward with remarkably similar stories about being drugged and sexually assaulted by the comedian. This year, the accusations resurfaced, and earlier this month, a seemingly harmless post on Cosby's Twitter account turned them into a social media storm.
http://www.cnn.com/2014/11/19/showbiz/bill-cosby-rape-allegation-prosecutor/
And yet there are some posters on this board who think that all of these women are liars and/or extortionists.
Ticket scalpers may be the ones getting scalped at next weeks Bill Cosby show at Londons Budweiser Gardens.
In the wake of rape and sexual assault allegations by more than two dozen women against Cosby, some people are trying to unload tickets at deeply discounted prices to his Jan. 8 show at the Gardens RBC Theatre.
Gardens general manager Brian Ohl said theres no change in plans to go ahead with the show and that tickets sales have been good, actually.
Were selling tickets every day, he said.
Let me begin by saying this: I am prepared for this essay to be a hot mess. It cant not be a mess - how do you talk about Bill Cosbys being accused of rape and drugging women, and not talk about stardom, and power, and racism, and sexism, and the news media, and black men, and white women, and fear, and slavery, and Jell-O, and childhood memories, and The Cosby Show, and class privilege, and rage at the first black president, and icons, and heroes, and fathers, hypocrisy, heartbreak and genius?
Ive been trying to figure out for weeks what to write about Bill Cosby, as I listened to friends and strangers express their opinions, read articles, watched the news. I questioned those who think he is guilty, others who believe he is innocent, and asked both why. Ive spoken to many people, but Ive been particularly interested in the opinions of black women (the one I most wanted to hear from was Camille Cosby, until she released that horrifying statement in support of her husband). Black women stand at the intersection of race and gender politics in this country. And Ive been surprised by women and men, white and black, who continue to defend Bill Cosby. Regardless of whether we are for or against him, Ive assumed that there was one thing we could all agree on: if he is guilty, he should pay for what he did. I was wrong in that assumption. Not everyone feels he should be punished, even if the allegations are true.
RBBMWhile it is indeed shocking that so many women have come forward, to think that some might twist allegations this serious, or were extortionists to begin with, is just a piece that an unscrupulous media circus couldnt care less about. An allegation that has yet to be proved or supported by evidence is just that.
If there is any truth to the bandwagon effect - it brands women as liars, manipulators, and potentially paints the whole lot with the same brush stroke by the very same shaming is all we can do public. The $100 million dollar civil threat price tag, without substance to back it up, just reinforces perception of extortion.
It is not that it is SO much easier to believe it is about the money but that it is more difficult to know what the truth is in a fair and balanced way, as (bbm) listed above.
If all this gets another conversation going about really helping women name, identify, define sexual assault, and know where to turn, what to do, then that is a silver lining.
My takeaway - work to change the statute of limitation laws on rape.
One of the key issues in this area is that there are pervasive, unhelpful attitudes towards rape and sexual assault that prevent justice at each step of the way victims dont report, police dont pass cases on to the CPS, cases are dropped. In 2010, sexual assault referral service The Havens carried out a survey about attitudes to rape in London, and the findings were shocking. Many people did not understand consent, believing that victims are responsible for their rape in some situations. And when it comes to these situations, women were more likely than men to believe that victims are responsible for the attack. The new plan comes four months after an investigation into rape statistics found that even though there were more rapes reported last year, the number of cases that were referred to the CPS had dropped by a third.
The Former Basketball Player Who Brought Down Bill Cosby"Just three days after she went to the police, the calls began. Either Cosby or one of his representatives would phone up Constand or her mother, always offering either an apology or money, she would later tell the court. There were at least four calls, according to Constand, and among the Cosby reps was lawyer...Constand said she didn't accept anything. Cosby himself confirmed this, telling Cheltenham police that neither woman asked him for money, "but had only asked him to apologize to Plaintiff and her mother, which he did," according to one filing...."
women were more likely than men to believe that victims are responsible for the attack.
People are not always what they seem to be or what we think they are.
Its a point that bears repeating in light of the allegations being made against comedian Bill Cosby by a near score of women who have come forward with claims that he abused them years or even decades ago
Now that he stands accused of heinous acts against women, it has severely tarnished his star. I dont know if hes guilty as alleged; I dont know that hes guilty at all. What I do know is he is a very big target with an even bigger bankroll and that things may not be as they seem. There are two sides to every story, and he has yet to tell his. Is it possible that some people have come forward to tell a story because they see a big payday at the end of it all? Sure just as it is possible that he did everything he is now accused of. What is important is that people keep, as Cosby himself has urged, an open mind.
Intimidation is a powerful tool, one that political activists have taken to heart in this, the age of the community-organizer president. Its not so much mob rule as it is the threat of mob rule that is becoming the new enemy of organized society.
The idea that 30 women of all different ages from all over the US would pick a "beloved" comedian to try to get money from, when the statue of limitations has passed, is absurd to me. Why would they pick BC instead of a more viable target? Doesn't make sense at all.
The idea that 30 women of all different ages from all over the US would pick a "beloved" comedian to try to get money from, when the statue of limitations has passed, is absurd to me. Why would they pick BC instead of a more viable target? Doesn't make sense at all.
http://www.usnews.com/opinion/artic...ge-bill-cosby-shows-the-power-of-intimidationNow that he stands accused of heinous acts against women, it has severely tarnished his star. I don’t know if he’s guilty as alleged; I don’t know that he’s guilty at all. What I do know is he is a very big target with an even bigger bankroll and that things may not be as they seem. There are two sides to every story, and he has yet to tell his. Is it possible that some people have come forward to tell a story because they see a big payday at the end of it all? Sure – just as it is possible that he did everything he is now accused of. What is important is that people keep, as Cosby himself has urged, an open mind.
http://www.usnews.com/opinion/artic...ge-bill-cosby-shows-the-power-of-intimidation
I'm not sure where they're seeing the big payday...? Andrea Constand got some sort of settlement so that's a previous case but she actually sued Bill Cosby to make him settle and he wanted the Jane Does kept out of court to make the story go away. Now the Jane Doe stories are for the most part all out there and most of them are not suing so where is all the money in the big pay day that they're expecting coming from ? He's not going to pay anyone anything to silence a story that's already all over all the channels. Maybe some networks would pay for interviews, but how much is that going to be worth if you're just one of two dozen with a similar story?
I totally agree.
Not only that, but, if all these women, of different ages, from all over the US, would pick a beloved comedian to get money from, why BC and not someone else? And why isn't this happening to someone else too? Why aren't opportunistic women all over making allegations against all sorts of celebrities? Pick a celebrity, any celebrity, and make a (false) claim against him. Apparently for the money, if the critics of the victims are to be believed. Why BC, and not, say, Jerry Seinfeld, or some other comedian? I have asked for *someone*, anyone to post a theory of how such a *conspiracy* comes together and so far I've heard zip, zilch, nothing. There are folks who adamantly denounce the victims as liars yet can shed no light on how it can be that 25+ women have come forward with similar experiences with the same man. Somehow all faith is placed in a man they know no better than the alleged victims.
It is utterly baffling to me.
IMO
Gardner said he has not heard from Cosby since the allegations resurfaced.
“Usually, Cosby will call me,” Gardener said. “If he gets to a point where it becomes bothersome to him, he’ll call me up and he’ll start telling me jokes.”
I totally agree.
Not only that, but, if all these women, of different ages, from all over the US, would pick a beloved comedian to get money from, why BC and not someone else? And why isn't this happening to someone else too? Why aren't opportunistic women all over making allegations against all sorts of celebrities? Pick a celebrity, any celebrity, and make a (false) claim against him. Apparently for the money, if the critics of the victims are to be believed. Why BC, and not, say, Jerry Seinfeld, or some other comedian? I have asked for *someone*, anyone to post a theory of how such a *conspiracy* comes together and so far I've heard zip, zilch, nothing. There are folks who adamantly denounce the victims as liars yet can shed no light on how it can be that 25+ women have come forward with similar experiences with the same man. Somehow all faith is placed in a man they know no better than the alleged victims.
It is utterly baffling to me.
IMO