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I honestly never paid that much attention to the sex tape when it was played in court. I felt I was invading Travis' privacy and it made me uncomfortable knowing he had no say so.
What I did hear wasn't all that shocking. In fact some of it was boring and I think even Travis was bored because he couldn't even stay awake.
But Arias was chatty as a canary and wide awake egging it on.
Exactly my take on it, too. I never understood why anyone thought the sex tape was so imporant and why it is being played again. Or for that matter, during the guilt phase (and even after) when NG and JVM ran out of material they played the sex tape over and over...parts of it, that is, given it was on air.
They were a couple engaged in sexual behavior, apparently including phone sex. It is no big deal. It is something many couples do. When people do this kind of thing, they say things but it's play-acting, basically. They say what they know the other party wants to hear because that is the turn-on.
This was two people on the phone who knew each other and had probably had phone sex many, many times before. (Not usually taped without the other party's consent, but that is for a different post.) In that context there is nothing in the conversation that I would not expect to hear--it sounds to me to be their preferred dialogue for phone sex and as such is not shocking in the least.
My God I wish Nurmi would move past this because the only reason he insists on dwelling is because he is still trying so hard to sully the victim. The jury will see that, I believe. But still, why not just get on with whatever mitigation they have and let Travis rest in peace for crying out loud!
All JMO.