I don't actively avoid airbus aircraft for safety concerns. I think all things considered, they are very safe in normal conditions. If I was going to fly in an area where I knew there would be a storm I might be more concerned, especially at night. Seems that some of these incidents occur because the pilot and computer disagree and are based on incorrect data. If the pilot has no visual ability to see what is going on (night or in a storm) he must trust the instruments. And since the computer controls and is controlled by the instruments, a malfunction can be disasterous. I am not a pilot, but that is basically what I believe happened with AF 447.
I agree with you 100% Prariewind. I won't fly at night, that's my only "demand" when I fly. I have a huge fear of flying and what you say above is correct.