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one of the portuguese articles said this
bbm, sbm
assuming that means romantically (and this isn't just some translation issue), this is the only reference i've seen to that side of his life. throughout this, i've had the impression he was mostly or entirely unsuccessful with intimate partners, was probably bitter about it, and i'm guessing it played a role here, at least indirectly.
Could be the opposite: as a young person, he found an older partner. We don’t know his interests, but let’s assume, straight. A 23-year-old guy dating a 43-year-old woman, with experience, already with kids, who does not require that much time and could be thankful for some support. That could last for very long, you know. I sometimes wonder if he took time off Brown because he missed the person and wanted to get back.
BTW, his different presentations at Brown and back home could be due to precisely this: away and frustrated or “back with someone”, satisfied and not mean.
His dad is 91. Mom is likely younger; she is being interviewed. I suppose, dad’s second wife? Or did parents simply marry in older age? Dad was 43 when Claudio was born.
It is not implausible that lack of contact with the parents had to do with Claudio being in a relationship that they didn’t expect for him. For example, same-sex, or a woman from another social circle, or an older woman (no grandchildren for them in the cards), or someone else that they won’t accept.
In short, I am not so sure that he used to be alone all these years. The person could have died and he moved to the US then, this is highly possible.
One more thing; his parents are older and alive, meaning, he has good genes. Yet he looked older than his age on all photos. I thought it was biology but I am not so sure now. Claudio looks two decades older than Nuno. Yet he was 48 with dad who is 91.
Thoughts?