lstiff
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If he did have a family, and was prepared to leave it, thats some serious commitment to the new relationship. Maybe Heather didn't want it to go that far. She is only twenty and a free spirit. I could see that making the older man very angry, if he felt he'd lost a lot, or given up a lot for her.
I am not sure if we are allowed to speculate as to the dynamic of the relationship with the OM but I see your POV. She is 20 and if this OM has children I can't imagine HE ready to settle down with step kids. This is obviously IMO b/c some 20 yr old girls are ready for that kind of relationship but this def makes me think that the RM was correct in saying he had left his wife and HE crying about it b/c she was being a carefree 20 year old. So many possible scenarios. IMO