"Seeing someone I worked with come through the door in the jump suit, with the handcuffs on, it hurts. It really does," said freelance photojournalist, George Wise, who's been covering the case for the Associated Press and others. "I was just shocked. I was just like, 'this cannot be Chris Coleman. There's no way. This is not the Chris Coleman I know'."
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"It's just devastating to stand here and look at his house and just know that his life there is over. It's just absolutely over," Wise said standing outside the Coleman home. "I'm really sad. I think when you look at the pictures of the children you look at Sheri, you look at him, they looked very happy...I have made it a point to stay on this story as a journalist," he added, wiping a tear. "Because I want the truth. I want the truth for me and the community because I care about Sheri and who she is. I do care about Chris even though he's in this horrible situation, whether he did it or not, the truth has got to come out."
http://www.kplr11.com/news/kplr-coleman-late-05020092,0,7637605.story?page=1
While I am sure shock at seeing someone they know being charged for a horrific crime is common from most, it happens every day. Granted, there are those people who commit crimes and their friends say, "I can see this person doing it because they were abusive.".
I am of the opinion that few people saw this coming with Chris Coleman. They did not see him as abusive because, imo, he may not have been at all. There are people in this world that hide their demons well. I think he simply vanished his family without the pre-emptive strikes we are common to seeing in such cases.
His friends and family have to come to terms with the truth.