Rhozwen
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I'm not a mother yet but one of the most important duties of a parent is to teach the kid right from wrong. Enabling the child simply because you gave birth to her and because you perceive her to be an extension of yourself is not only selfish but also wrong. Arias' parents should have apologized to Travis' family and begged their daughter to confess to murder. If that's too much for them then maintaining good old silence (as opposed to mocking the victim's family, pretending their daughter is innocent, asking for $$$ etc.) would be the right thing to do. Of course Aunt Sue is all about the money.
I am a parent and one of the most valuable lessons you can teach your children is to take responsibility for their actions. Every choice has a consequence. It's not easy watching your child make a mistake, but that's how we all learn. If we swoop in to save them every time they mess up, they will never, ever learn how to take responsibility for themselves and will grow up with an entitled attitude that the world should bend the rules for them.
If I were in her parent's shoes, I would apologize to the family of the victim privately, make one public statement stating that I would like my privacy to be respected and that I will stand back and allow justice to be served. It would be gut wrenching to have your child be a convicted murderer, but the only way to handle it is to truly face the reality of it and focus on finding the truth in it all. Her family knows the truth, they are just not in a place emotionally where they can accept it. JMO, IMHO, MOO..etc..