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I want to tell everyone here how BAD my daughter has gotten since she went to rehab and after almost 3 months of trying to withdraw, but I can't sit here any longer right now.

Zuri,
I have a funny story to tell you about the Branstable Brown gala. Well, it's kinda of funny NOW, not so much then. I saw one of your posts about it being on your bucket list. Then they closed the thread before I could reply :smile:

I'll come back after I ice my back and take a few drugs :giggle:
 
Oh my goodness, CJ, I didn't know you'd gone through anaphylactic shock. :scared: Was it from food or meds ? How scary for you, am so glad you are doing well today.

I agree with you, that place looks like it would cost a pretty penny, lol. Their website is informative though, was thinking that depending on the town your son is in, there might be some CBT therapists that could work with him as an outpatient. Whatever the case, I pray that he's willing to do something. :hug:

Dec 4 will be 3 years since it happened. I had a migraine headache and my GP gave me a sample of Imitrex , I took it...within 20 minutes I coded; not once but 3 times!
Needless say I was on full life support, my core body temp lowered (to stop the damage) and in ICU for some time, then in the medical unit after that. I suffered heart damage and brain damage, but I'm ALIVE! God didn't want me yet :) By all medical rights, I should be dead. Not many people live thru a shock this bad. I'm blessed and lucky.

Not sure if CBS is around this area. We are rather a small hillybilly area. LOL I have not heard of it till you posted it. But, I do appreciate your concern. :) (((hugs)))


Ok, I must get my shower and get ready take the long drive see the doctor. See ya'll later....
 
Bernina....I am at a loss for words. :thinking:. Snow ...... in Arizona ........ in mid-May? Unbelievable.

The latest I remember any significant snow here would be mid-April.
 
Good morning all!
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Just checking in for the day!

coffejunkie - Good Luck on your heart results!!
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Bernina - :snowball: Now I can throw them at you and not YESorNO since her snow melted...
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We had a nice rain last night, no thunder and lightning as predicted - the Huz was disappointed...
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Still cloudy and I have to venture out later to do my weekly grocery shopping!
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hmmm.... wondering why we are getting military planes flying over head here... they were over us yesterday too! :waitasec: anyone "hear" anything?? I know there is Beale Air Force base in a city not too far from here. Maybe just training excercises? You know - patrolling the West Coast!

Anyway - :grouphug: to all who need it today! Off to read other threads!

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Bernina....I am at a loss for words. :thinking:. Snow ...... in Arizona ........ in mid-May? Unbelievable.

The latest I remember any significant snow here would be mid-April.

Hi Spellbound :wave:
We had snow up here too in the Sierras! Just a Spring shower! LOL!

eta - taking FOREVER to post stuff... :gaah:
 
Bernina....I am at a loss for words. :thinking:. Snow ...... in Arizona ........ in mid-May? Unbelievable.

The latest I remember any significant snow here would be mid-April.

Hi Spellbound :wave:
We had snow up here too in the Sierras! Just a Spring shower! LOL!

eta - taking FOREVER to post stuff... :gaah:
 
Oh Susza, the pics of the Saleve, Jura and Alps brought back such wonderful memories. Thank you for taking those pics. Hope Geneva finds you well!

Glad I could provoke these good memories.
Working rythm at school will soon slow down - well, less teaching, more correcting - then I'll stroll down to the lake side and bring some more pics.

Btw - I started kayak training on the Rhône and Arve river. Every tuesday evening after a 8 hours teaching day. That's SO good to "cool down" your brain! Still more when you capsize - that happened to me this week for the very first time. Wow, I had time to panique during these looooong seconds until I succeeded (by reflex, not by expertise) to tear off the spray-skirt.
I'm happy it happened, now I can't phantasize any more.
 
I just got some upsetting news and I cannot stop shaking.
 
My daughter married an addict. She found him od several times, and each time she had to call 911 and do cpr. The last time was two weeks after Dallas Cowboy, Mark Tuinei, bought and shot up from a heroin dealer (apparently my new son in law didn't know his new neighbor was a dealer) that lived across from them, and died of an overdose.

Anna said he called her at work, and after she got off the phone she said he was too casual, and she left found him on the floor in the living room barely breathing, so she did what she had before call 911 and that she would give him a breath and was looking frantically for drugs and couldn't find it, but as she was giving him another breath she looked up under a end table and found it and a syringe, so she dumps everything down the sink, ran outside and pitched the syringe. When LE got there they asked if anything was in the apartment and Anna said no. While the paramedics were loading her him in the ambulance, she went to Medical City, the closes hospital and he wasn't there, they had transported him to Presbyterian a few miles futher down the road. So she goes there and reporters are outside of the er, and she walks in, tells them her name and a nurse took her inside of the hospital to a small office. The reporters wanted to talk to her husband, because a whole lot of kids from Plano were od ing at an alarming rate, ( he was from there, at twenty five he was older than most) and she didn't have to talk with them if that was what she wanted. She got to see her husband several hours later and the fool was thinking about speaking with the reporters.

Anna had been thinking about leaving him, but his dad and step mother wanted them to go to counseling (which Anna thought was hypocritical, since he'd left his wife and children for the woman) and the therapist , from their church, placed all the blame on Anna. That she wasn't being a good Christan wife, even though she was the only one working because her husband couldn't keep a job, and that she should try harder. She stuck it out for another year, and decided she was over and done with her marriage, she'd spent five years in a marriage that she didn't want to be in, but felt she had nowhere to go and so she stayed. She told me later that when we started raising our grandson she felt that there was no room for her. My sister said Anna once told her that my grand kids had stolen me from her.


One time when Anna was in her psychotic episode, she was arguing with me and pulled her arm back, clenched her fist and was going to hit me, and our Quaker Parakeet said her name. It stopped her and she asked if I'd heard it also. He'd never said her name before, most of his vocabulary consisted of calling DH a$$w&&& and ,french fries, a wolf whistle and could sound like a lawn mower for hours when we or anyone else mowed. My grandson found him in our backyard , and we brought him in and when he saw dh he said a%%w%%%. dh asked what did he say and the bird then called him a MF. We think his previous owner cussed, wore glasses and had a mustache. He was a sweetie to me. He'd chew on my hair, and give me kisses on my cheeks.


So sorry to hear about B.B.King. I knew he was getting close after some complications he had this last week.



and I see they have a sentence for Boston Marathon bomber Dzhokhar Tsarnaev and it's expected at 3 p.m. I do hope it's death and not LWOP. It pissed me of that his defense wanted to blame others for influencing him.
 
MY granddaughter got kicked in the face by a bully at daycare. SHe is only 4 years old.
I cannot stop shaking worrying about her.
 
MY granddaughter got kicked in the face by a bully at daycare. SHe is only 4 years old.
I cannot stop shaking worrying about her.

Oh, Kensie...the poor baby. What is with all the violence in this world?? And in daycare! I would be shaking, too.
 
I want to tell everyone here how BAD my daughter has gotten since she went to rehab and after almost 3 months of trying to withdraw, but I can't sit here any longer right now.

Zuri,
I have a funny story to tell you about the Branstable Brown gala. Well, it's kinda of funny NOW, not so much then. I saw one of your posts about it being on your bucket list. Then they closed the thread before I could reply :smile:

I'll come back after I ice my back and take a few drugs :giggle:

I want to hear! You went to the Barnstable Brown party???? How cool is that!
 
Violence at 4 years old. The world is too scary for me.
 
MY granddaughter got kicked in the face by a bully at daycare. SHe is only 4 years old.
I cannot stop shaking worrying about her.

I hope the daycare has a Zero Tolerance policy. I am so sorry she has experienced this at such a tender age. Oh my...
 
I normally just lurk on this thread as you all have far more interesting lives than I do ;)

At any rate, I wanted to put in a good word for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and addiction. 21 years ago I stopped smoking cigarettes with a program called Aspire, which was based on CBT principles. The Aspire folks treated the issue for what it actually is, nicotine addiction. The first phase of the program was a week of nightly 3.5 hour seminars, teaching us about the insidious nature of the drug to which we were addicted, and about addiction/withdrawal/relapse in general. They didn't even have us stop smoking until three days in to the first week of the program. Once we stopped, we had 24/7 phone support for a month, and our counselors actually checked in with us if we did not call to check in every day. We were required to go to a meeting once a week for one year, much like an AA meeting. The cost was about the same as a pack a day habit, at that time. I was almost up to two packs a day before I stopped so it was a savings for me. I had tried to quit many times before, even successfully for three years in my 20s.

It was the best money I ever spent and the best program I could have found. It got to the impulse thoughts triggered usually by stress, that would lead me to pick up a smoke. I learned how to hear the "junkie thinking" inside my head and be able to talk back to it and quiet the cravings. I learned to identify that feeling of "I want a ciggie" and then work my way through a specific thought process to break the craving cycle. We were encouraged to talk about the grief in stopping smoking, when you feel like you have lost a best friend that has always been there for you. They also taught us a lot about the mental condition of feeling deprived and how to work though those false thoughts.

The program no longer exists, that I know of, but you can still find copies of the founder's book, Hooked But Not Helpless, by Patricia Allison. That program and its principles literally saved my life. I haven't even had an urge to smoke in 20+ years!
 
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