I am hoping and praying some man who runs a MEN'S victim of abuse facility or group will come forward for the State.
All of ALV's man bashing and "men aren't victims of abuse" attitude....is such BS, as we've all said.
I've witnessed abuse by wives/girlfriends of several male friends. Even my current neighbor.
It's true, most men WON'T admit ANY sort of abuse. Men are often subject to being called far worse EVERY single day of their lives. Most of my male friends will NOT admit it, even though I point it out to them.
When they all get together, men call it being "pu**y whipped" and make the :whipper: noise.
They're called worthless, a lousey



, a "pri*k", a "C" word" which I HATE, a good for nothing bum, stupid idiot, a mooch, I make more $ than you, what kind of man are you, you're NOT a man, make fun of sexual "prowess"....ya get the picture.
The defense found "





", "3HW", Travis didn't say "please", and we pretty much can count them on one hand, and, IMO, nowhere NEAR abusive.
I've seen dishes, vases, hammers, pictures, pots, pans, a knife whizzing by my head.
Last week, my neighbor was running down the street at 3 am, throwing a bunch of something glass at her husband calling him a effin'



worthless pu**y.
This past week, she threw a hammer at him, he had to duck and move away...."you want the hammer, here's your hammer!!" He was trying to put together a fence for their garden and she KNEW how to do it better than him. Sweet young guy, NEVER hear HIS voice, just her whiney voice and screaming. Never see any of his friends come over. Saw his father ONCE, her mother lives down the street, and grandmother is next door. He runs around for ALL of them...grass cut, windows, roof in the rain.
At any rate, you can look at his demeanor and see it in his eyes. He's been humiliated in front of the WHOLE neighborhood. She laughed about the 3 am stunt..."guess you heard I was pissed off at John....(laughing)...he's just such an idiot."
I PRAY some self confident man who works with MALE victims of abuse will step forward. If we have to go thru ALV again, IMO, a male who represents domestic abuse on husbands/boyfriends/life partners would certainly help the jury see the REAL course of events.