TxLady2
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The BIG thing that stood out for me in all this is:
In the first 30 minutes or so that you initially find your child is missing is chaotic - 911 being called, you're running around yelling the child's name, etc etc
When you call 911 you don't go on some diatribe about how you are "going to kill the SOB that took her" and you "don't care if this is recorded or not - you can put me in jail".
Now - how would you KNOW that someone TOOK HER? That she didn't wander out the door?
Nope - you make that statement because it deflects, deflects, deflects, and besides if YOU are the PERSON RESPONSIBLE your threats are empty words. You're threatening a non-existent person so what does it matter?
When my son was about 8 - 9 he didn't come home from a friends house after playing. I was frantic - I called 911 and they were there immediately. Turned out that he just stayed longer at the friends and while the cops were all over the place - the father shows up with my son in the car - happy ending. Point I'm trying to make is I certainly didn't jump to the conclusion that he'd be abducted - as a parent you can't, it will eat you up. The cops had to physically keep me from going up to the other parent's car as I was furious!!! :furious: But do you see my point? I wasn't threatening to kill anyone - I wanted my child.
I always thought from the get go that the 911 called said it all - and I still feel that way.
Good points. I don't think it would be unusual to think of it being an abduction, if your child goes missing in the middle of the night from her own bed, but that's just me. However, thinking of killing somebody over it would be my last thought. My first thoughts would be trying to find my child. Why would a father refuse to answer basic questions to the dispatcher? Why would he go off on a tirade and hang up the phone twice? Why would he make threats to the alledged kidnapper and risk his child being killed? Doesn't make sense. And why wouldn't HE be the one to call 911, instead of the girlfriend/babysitter who barely knew what she looked like? She couldn't give a decent description, or her birthdate, or how tall she was or what she weighed. Unbelievable!