The British Royal Family - news, views, clothes & shoes! #9

[PinkPrincessPoop]

I just cringed reading that.

Why is she bringing a handful of her son's used baby clothes? It's patronizing. Those clothes are going to be prizes for the most connected people and likely to be sold for the notoriety. People may get into fights over having a piece of clothing worn by the son of an heir to the throne of Britain.

Always best to give out things that can be Bought there, so that local businesses and local craftsmen/ artisans/ textile workers, whatever also get the benefit of giveaways. Local needs for baby clothes may be very different from those of a british baby.

I understand she "wants to help" but this seems just very poorly thought out. Once again. Can't someone instill some common sense into this woman?

Isn't it someone's job to help her make these types of plans? And to help her with public speaking? Someone needs to be fired.

 

[Herat]

Does the Duchess of Cambridge give away Prince Willam's old undwear when they go on a Royal visit?

Does The Queen give away Prince Philip's old shirts when she does a Royal Tour?

Of course not. It's actually very patronizing and demeaneing to their hosts. And other reasons of tact.

l've been on several medical project visits in far-off lands and I have some experien ce in working with charities.

It's one thing to dicretely give your translators or guides or their children some Tshirts or cute things you brought for them. I said DISCRETELY. And if you want to honor someone, you give them something new.

You don't want to publicly announce you are giving things away and contribute to the begging behaviour or end up with people fighting over little things, just because they are something.

I've seen this over and over again and it's not an acceptable practice to professionals in the charity business. I am quite sure royal protocol prohibits this, for a good reason. Harry, at least, should have an idea how this is done.

 

[gregjrichards]

The Duchess of Sussex has only been a member of the royal family 16 months and she is still transitioning into the role. She is going to do some things really well and she will make mistakes. I really think condemning her for everything she does is very unfair. At least she is trying to make a difference she could easily spend her days going out for lunch and shopping.

I don’t see what is wrong with the Duchess giving Archie’s clothing away to children in need it’s not as if she is going to give a press conference when she is handing them over. It is better for the clothing to be used than thrown away and it will be the best quality.

This is just my opinion I respect everyone else’s.

 

[mickey2942]

It is tacky. When I donate to a "charity", it is new items or cash. If I am getting rid of old stuff, I drop it off at Goodwill.

She just doesn't understand the difference.

 

[Herat]

When you go on a trip to third-world countries, the guides specifically address the issue of bringing things to give away and all companies discourage it. They specify NOT bringing candies, pens, pencils, toys, clothing, etc. The know the local people and often request the tour group make a donation to a school or an orphanage where it can be shared by everyone.

First of all, it's impossible to bring something for everyone. Like bringing 5 cupcakes to the third-grade class of 40. Which lucky 5 get the cupcakes?

Secondly, it sets up a begging mentality.

Better she should ask a recognized charity in each country and donate money so that it can do more good and reach more people.

Here's another charity idea: Pack For A Purpose // Small Space. Little Effort. Big Impact.

If she wants to give away Archie's things, then I'm sure there are UK charities where it can be done discretely.

 

[Herat]

The Duchess of Sussex has only been a member of the royal family 16 months and she is still transitioning into the role. She is going to do some things really well and she will make mistakes. I really think condemning her for everything she does is very unfair.

She also has a husband who has been a Royal Family member all of his 35 years and at least 2, or is it 3 PR companies advising her.

More people who could be intervening to stop her from making these mistakes of inexperience.

 

[gregjrichards]

Prince Harry has said that he can't wait to introduce his baby son Archie to Africa when he and his wife, the Duchess of Sussex, land in Cape Town today.

But royal staff have admitted that the couple's ten-day official tour is likely to be 'more lively' with an 'extra special small passenger' on board.

The Sussexes are set to undertake their first official tour as a family of three, starting and ending their trip with engagements in impoverished townships in Cape Town and Johannesburg.

In between Harry will visit Botswana, Angola and Malawi, leaving his wife and young son in Cape Town for five days as the small propeller plane he will be travelling isn't child friendly.

The family will be reunited in Johannesburg for the last leg on their trip.

Prince Harry says he 'can't wait' to introduce son Archie to Africa | Daily Mail Online

Hopefully the trip will be successful and achieve its aims.

 

[Sherwood Park]

Prince Harry has said that he can't wait to introduce his baby son Archie to Africa when he and his wife, the Duchess of Sussex, land in Cape Town today.

But royal staff have admitted that the couple's ten-day official tour is likely to be 'more lively' with an 'extra special small passenger' on board.

The Sussexes are set to undertake their first official tour as a family of three, starting and ending their trip with engagements in impoverished townships in Cape Town and Johannesburg.

In between Harry will visit Botswana, Angola and Malawi, leaving his wife and young son in Cape Town for five days as the small propeller plane he will be travelling isn't child friendly.

The family will be reunited in Johannesburg for the last leg on their trip.

Prince Harry says he 'can't wait' to introduce son Archie to Africa | Daily Mail Online

Hopefully the trip will be successful and achieve its aims.

I'm behind on reading a bunch of posts on this thread, but I'm looking forward to reading about their visit to various parts of Africa.

GJR, I trust you'll keep us posted

 

[mickey2942]

What are the goals for royalty to visit impoverished countries? And South Africa is in quite a political turmoil right now.

Is Meghan and Harry visiting Somalia or Ethiopia, actually going to create change? At least Princess Diana had a specific mission for her visits, it was AIDS and then ending land mines. She actually had an imprint.

 

[Sherwood Park]

Thank you @gregjrichards! Standing ovation for this post!
I am really tired of trying to post positive stories about Meghan only to have certain ones pile on and tear her down, looking for trivial reasons to criticize.

This is “mean girl” behavior. People who can see nothing good in their chosen target say more about themselves than they do about the person they are constantly and unfairly criticizing. Let that sink in for a moment. This is online bullying, even though Meghan never sees what you write. We see it. Meghan has done nothing to warrant the constant venomous posts on this thread. And no, unlike the very polite and gallant @gregjrichards, I don’t respect your knee-jerk opinions when you constantly bash her.

Why don’t you go start a “bash Meghan” thread and take your over-the-top negativity there? This was never the intention of this thread. You have hijacked it. I’m so done with this nastiness.

JMO, MOO

I think everyone has a member of the Royal family that they are not fond of.

Perhaps readers can skip posts about any royal family members they have a strong dislike for, or aren't interested in.
I'm not a fan of MM, but some people are. I skip those posts because I don't want to read about her. Topics on this thread vary. Some are interesting, some aren't. It's all based on personal taste and interests.

I hope there can be space for people to be able to enjoy the royals they like and space for those who dislike those same royals.

Maybe one can focus on objects rather than the person when they dislike something. Example: "I'm not into floral dresses." Rather than, "Xena Warrior Princess sucks, and looks like an overstuffed garden box."

I'm not sure what a peaceful solution might look like, but I have enjoyed reading many posts and learning about posters personal stories related to their royal interests, etc. I'd hate to see this all end.

 

[Gardenista]

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry arrive in Africa for Tour on delayed BA flight

 

[gregjrichards]

Pictured: Prince Harry, Meghan Markle and 'extra special passenger' Archie touch down in Cape Town before they leave their son with a nanny to visit a township dubbed South Africa's 'murder capital'

Harry and Meghan land in Cape Town South Africa for 10 day Africa tour with Archie | Daily Mail Online

Archie looks so big it is lovely to see him with his parents.

 

[Gardenista]

Mad About Meghan: First Look: Harry And Meghan Kick Off Tour in Cape Town

 

[Gardenista]

Meghan Markle's former Suits co-star Patrick J Adams shares unseen candid snaps of the royal on set | Daily Mail Online

 

[Gardenista]

More pics of her dress in this article.

Harry and Meghan arrive in Nyanga near Cape Town known as 'South Africa's murder capital' on tour | Daily Mail Online

 

[mickey2942]

Meghan is wearing wedges!

 

[rosemadderlake]

What are the goals for royalty to visit impoverished countries? And South Africa is in quite a political turmoil right now.

Is Meghan and Harry visiting Somalia or Ethiopia, actually going to create change? At least Princess Diana had a specific mission for her visits, it was AIDS and then ending land mines. She actually had an imprint.

Diana made a big impact. Big, bold impact. But it didn’t happen overnight.

AIDS, land mines, impoverishment, inequity, conservation and wildlife are all still really big ongoing issues.

Harry loves Africa and they love him. I think he’s always felt passionately about continuing Diana’s legacy. It’s one of the things I really like about him, that, and he wears his heart openly.

My thoughts on gifts. Donating some Archie items to a charity enables them to potentially raise money. And, gifts like coloring books and pens are always welcome items for children.

We’ve become too “Insta”, instagram, instant messaging, insta-reporting, etc. It might be worth a step back, take a deep breath, and just see how Harry and Meghan do. Theirs is a unique position in the world and I believe their heart is in the right place.

 

[human]

I just cringed reading that.

Why is she bringing a handful of her son's used baby clothes? It's patronizing. Those clothes are going to be prizes for the most connnected people and likely to be sold for the notoriety. People may get into fights over having a piece of clothing worn by the son of an heir to the throne of Britain.

Always best to give out things that can be Bought there, so that local businesses and local craftsmen/ artisans/ textile workers, whatever also get the benefit of giveaways. Local needs for baby clothes may be very different from those of a british baby.

I understand she "wants to help" but this seems just very poorly thought out. Once again. Can't someone instill some common sense into this woman?

Excellent points.

They could have an auction of his clothes back in England to raise money.

Reminds me of the movie, “ The Gods Must Be Crazy”

 

[human]

Mad About Meghan: First Look: Harry And Meghan Kick Off Tour in Cape Town

Cute dress but the shoes are not for her.

 

[human]

Interesting story of Botswana, Harry’s love.

A United Kingdom: the true story of Botswana's first president and the English woman he loved