Misty stated that they used that back door only to take out garbage or occasionally take the vacuum out for the car. Neither Ronald nor Misty ever admitted using the back ramp as a place to smoke.
Haleigh's weight would be a factor given the dark and the damp. Watching the early morning interviews, you can see the dew all over the grass and the old wood on that ramp would have been slick. Carrying a child down that ramp in those circumstances lead me to believe it would not have happened.
I am not making light of your theory, Kam....but I find it slightly funny to imagine a druggie taking care to make sure his garbage is safely into the can outside.....yanno?
I don't think Haleigh was taken from the MH by someone who snuck in and just grabbed whoever was most convenient to grab. The back door never made sense to me as a way to get in or out. A revenge would never bother to stage. The statement would be loud and clear just by Haleigh's disappearance. A stranger doesn't make sense because of how random the entire scenario is. Marie or her agent doesn't make sense because Jr is still there. In fact, anyone on either side taking only Haleigh and keeping her somewhere doesn't make sense because Jr is still there. I throw this out universally for everyone involved.
Misty's anger was never spoken of by Marie or Ronald or GGM......or anyone. We see it now through RoadRageGate. We hear her snapping at her friends on her 911 call after being robbed. We see a little of it in that first interview where Ronald whispers to her to look at the camera, and without blinking, flinching, or even turning to look at him, respond "I am." in quite a tone of snottiness.
I do not buy that Misty loved and cared for Haleigh as much as people want to make out. Haleigh wanted to identify with Misty (We hear that she had to have everything Misty had) and then we hear a long convoluted story about giving in to Haleigh's temper tantrum that morning to wear a particular outfit. Misty, having been gone for 3 days, up all Sunday night talking with Ron, having to deal with a cranky 5 year old and a 3 year old.....How did they manage to get Jr back to sleep?
Were the kids present that Sunday night after Misty returned and was up all night talking with Ronald (per TN on one of her many NG appearances). How were their needs met? How was dinner addressed that Sunday night? Bedtime? How did Ronald and Misty keep it down so the kids could get the rest they needed? If Haleigh and Jr sleep from 8 until 6.......that's 10 hours. Up to get ready for school......adding on time to drive to GGM and back down to Haleigh's school....getting back to the MH by, let's just say 9........Jr is ready for bed already by then? Up at noon, laying around the house until Ronald has to get Haleigh at the bus....that's 3:30 or so, and Jr is asleep again....let's say he gets up by 4, he's ready for bed again by 8?
Something is not right with that bit. How long was Jr's nap during the day? Why was there a nap time so close to bedtime? Differences in parenting notwithstanding, most people understand you don't let a child sleep that much if you want them to go to bed without major problems.
Misty could have traded Haleigh, as some have suggested, for drugs, but there would be evidence of that, namely the drugs. I dismiss that outright, unless Misty decided to sell her for just enough to get her through the night. Doubtful. I don't think Haleigh went to pay off any drug debt, either. Nor was she taken for collateral.
I have nothing that has allowed me to consider any of the theories seriously, not even just for lack of evidence, but because the center fails in the logic of nearly all of them. The only one so far that holds its center is that something happened to Haleigh which puts Misty and Ronald squarely and equally responsible.