Thought and theories on Jeremy

[Donjeta]

I guess that is a difference in personalities, and quite plausible obviously, speaking for myself I never try to go into the "blame game" when something tragic happens unless I have PROOF someone is to blame.

She admitted she got drunk while she was the sole adult caregiver for three children.

That's proof enough of irresponsibility, and it ended tragically. JMO.

People owe it to their children to expect better of the people they let look after their kids. IMO.

 

[Sparklin]

BBM

Perhaps JI was resting for a little while and SB was there to take care of all the kids. I still don't understand why SB had to go on her own separate trip to the store. Why not have DB pick up whatever she wanted? :waitasec:

Maybe the wine was an impulse buy and when SB saw it decided to get some drink of her own to 'celebrate' her freedom.

 

[cityslick]

No, this is based on the assumption that DB was not involved.

So when would this have happened though that DB wasn't aware of it? Sleeping? If so, there would of needed to be a big enough hole where LE couldn't account for JI while he was at work.

Has it ever been confirmed or denied if he had coworkers with him?

 

[iamnotagolem]

It might just be a front. If he is feeding the inconsistencies to DB, he can't just cut ties with her now. She could turn on him. . ."it was JI that said this. . .said that. . .etc." We don't know what has been said between them. He might be encouraging her to be deceptive or feeding her defensiveness. Does that make sense? Say if JI was involved and DB wasn't. He could have told her. . .you better not tell LE that you were drinking. That will make you look suspicious. LE will want to pin this on you. You better tell them we both found BL gone to protect yourself. . . .etc.

MOO

See I've wondered if he came home to a dead Lisa and disposed of her, then came back and woke up DB. She would have been groggy and he could have corrected her memory, which is why she says "we"/"i".

 

[cityslick]

She admitted she got drunk while she was the sole adult caregiver for three children.

That's proof enough of irresponsibility, and it ended tragically. JMO.

People owe it to their children to expect better of the people they let look after their kids. IMO.

If she truly has nothing to do with it, she'll be paying for it in guilt and grief for the rest of her life if BL is never found. JI may have hated her for that, but time heals all wounds, even wounds this big.

 

[cityslick]

See I've wondered if he came home to a dead Lisa and disposed of her, then came back and woke up DB. She would have been groggy and he could have corrected her memory, which is why she says "we"/"i".

I still don't think there was enough time for this. SB confirmed he knocked on her door.

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

What more proof does one need when someone admits they got drunk and passed out when they have 3 children-one being a 10 month who is sick-its very irresponsible and she put her children lives in danger that night-and look what happened!!!-MOOC

It doesn't prove she murdered her child. It doesn't even prove that she would have woke up in an IDI theory even if she was stone cold sober. <Modsnip> maybe that is why DB left her husband, maybe he was overly judgemental.

 

[vlpate]

How do you know what he is preventing or not preventing? And then, what is the circumstances behind that? You could be right in everything you say, but there is no basis for it, because there is no details behind it.

Like everyone else, I don't know anything, and don't claim to.

 

[SyraKelly]

It doesn't prove she murdered her child. It doesn't even prove that she would have woke up in an IDI theory even if she was stone cold sober. But your post did make me think maybe that is why DB left her husband, maybe he was overly judgemental.

I guess my post did not delete in time as I saw Donjeta said what I wanted..

 

[hambirg]

So when would this have happened though that DB wasn't aware of it? Sleeping? If so, there would of needed to be a big enough hole where LE couldn't account for JI while he was at work.

Has it ever been confirmed or denied if he had coworkers with him?

Idk. . .that's what I'm trying to figure out. We might be making some assumptions that aren't true. I still want to know WHICH Starbucks it was. Why is that such a big secret? I want to be able to sleuth their security system. . .where are the cameras, where are they pointed. kwim? I just read on the radio thread that RR says there was a red SUV driving the neighborhood that night. Is it possible that JI knows somebody with a red SUV?

It has always bothered me that the first sighting sounds like it could fit a description of JI. It's the first thing I thought when I heard it. . ."that sounds like JI." The trick is to try and see if JI had any opportunity to do this. Idk. . .but I sure want to find out! :banghead:

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

See I've wondered if he came home to a dead Lisa and disposed of her, then came back and woke up DB. She would have been groggy and he could have corrected her memory, which is why she says "we"/"i".

If I came home after a nights work and found one of the dogs had vomitted on the floor, I'd clean it up and get rid of it, and then maybe wake up my wife to see if the dog had ate something it should not have. come home and find a dead child, clean it up and get rid of it w/o asking any questions, with no alarm, just doispose of it before waking up my wife, not so much.

 

[iamnotagolem]

I still don't think there was enough time for this. SB confirmed he knocked on her door.

How far is it to the nearest dumpster? a 5 min walk? a 2.5 min run?

 

[iamnotagolem]

If I came home after a nights work and found one of the dogs had vomitted on the floor, I'd clean it up and get rid of it, and then maybe wake up my wife to see if the dog had ate something it should not have. come home and find a dead child, clean it up and get rid of it w/o asking any questions, with no alarm, just doispose of it before waking up my wife, not so much.

If JI was molesting Lisa? Same thoughts? We're talking about possibilities. I do not know what would drive JI to dispose of Lisa by himself or to aid DB unless he needed to hide something HE did.

 

[vlpate]

Maybe the wine was an impulse buy and when SB saw it decided to get some drink of her own to 'celebrate' her freedom.

Impulse buy? She just happened to go straight to the liquor isle and impulsively buy a box of wine?

Impulse buying is when you see something you weren't looking for and buy it....like a snickers at the check out stand.

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

If JI was molesting Lisa? Same thoughts? We're talking about possibilities. I do not know what would drive JI to dispose of Lisa by himself or to aid DB unless he needed to hide something HE did.

It's possible the aliens snatched her too I guess, but since I have nothing in the least to tell me JI was a baby rapist, I'll pass on that theory.

 

[cityslick]

How far is it to the nearest dumpster? a 5 min walk? a 2.5 min run?

If BL was in the dumpster, she would of been found, fire or not.

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

big difference in a dog vs dead baby clean up!!

Exactly my point, my reaction would be totally different. who would come home to a dead child and just decide to clean up the mess before coming back to wake up their wife? Which btw is the scenario I had quoted and replied to. :banghead:

 

[SyraKelly]

Exactly my point, my reaction would be totally different. who would come home to a dead child and just decide to clean up the mess before coming back to wake up their wife? Which btw is the scenario I had quoted and replied to. :banghead:

I read it wrong -so I deleted my post

 

[cityslick]

Impulse buy? She just happened to go straight to the liquor isle and impulsively buy a box of wine?

Impulse buying is when you see something you weren't looking for and buy it....like a snickers at the check out stand.

Wasn't it speculated that one of the possible reasons PN took her to the store so that he can pay for it? I know RR mentioned that SB did not drink wine. Maybe there were other things that SB bought at the store (RR mentioned she did not go to the same store as DB).

 

[vlpate]

Why didn't JI check on Lisa when he checked on the boys? Did he need DB to witness Lisa missing with him? That way she wouldn't be suspicious of him. We both went to her room and she was gone.