HarvestMoon
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She can be as angry as she wants, but I doubt that helps her move forward. Which is what she must do as a survivor of this (or not). Honestly, don't care if that offends anyone. Survivors must move on positively or they're perpetual victims in my opinion.
Grief has no set formula. It's a lengthy back and forth process and very personal. I think Tanisha is older than Travis and given the way they were brought up she could have been a bit motherly/protective of him, who knows. But, she lost him too soon, unexpectedly, and in the most horrific way. I cannot fathom having to see the person responsible for this , everyday. And to have to listen to what is being thrown about regarding her brother's character. Thank goodness she has Harold and other support. When this is over I imagine at some point she will be able to let go a bit and move on to other stages. Poor dear girl. For now she may feel that her anger keeps her connected to and fighting for her brother.