Now onto bail affi. Nel reads and OP doesn't mention it. OP says he doesn't know why.
O: I noticed there was noone in bthrm, the toilet door was closed...there were many many thoughts going thru my mind; someone might climb in window, stick a firearm thru...
N: But did you think there was someone in the toilet?
O: Yes I did Milady.
So he wants us to believe an intruder broke into his house to use the toilet?