BIB
I think you are incorrect about the timing of the crying.
The sounds of crying, which her husband thought were from Pistorius, came shortly after the bangs. From Jurer13 (Thanks Lisa)
- I think this sequence shows that neighbor, Estelle van der Merwe, heard Steenkamp loudly arguing with with Pistorius. She says it was "intermittent" for an hour.
- van der Merwe than dozes off and sleeps through the first set of bangs and screams from Steenkamp. She awakens to the last gunshot sounds (around 3am could easily mean 3.15) and the total silence occurs after Steenkamp is hit in the head.
Yes, am I right in thinking that Mrs vdM makes no mention of looking at the clock when she heard the bangs? If she didn't, then I agree that "around 3 am" should be understood only as a rough estimate of the time. They might not have looked at the clock until after all the commotion, so it would be a retrospective estimate.