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I still can't wait to visit NYC and the States though![]()
Make sure it's during the holiday season! NYC is magical during that time
I still can't wait to visit NYC and the States though![]()
This is amazingly the most probable scenario. Internet fame for a newly discovered hobby in such a short period of time sparked her curiosity while softening her NYC sensibility.My guess is that this tragedy really has little to do with where it took place, culture or nationality. I think that putting her photos on Instagram...just fourmonths ago...and finding praise and acclaim for her very real talent...opened up a new exciting world to this young wife and mother. Suddenly, she was "meeting" and being praised by artistic young men in wonderful cities around the world. Her hard working husband of 14 years may have suddenly seemed dull to her.
IMO, this trip was as much about meeting these artistic new friends...enetering into this "artsy" world where she suddenly fit in and found praise and excitement. She thought she "knew" these people, but , in online relationships, how much can you really know? I think she decided to meet the most fascinating of these online friends in their cities, even if she had to sleep on a couch in a strangers home. I think this may be why the friend backed out.
My guess is that this tragedy really has little to do with where it took place, culture or nationality. I think that putting her photos on Instagram...just fourmonths ago...and finding praise and acclaim for her very real talent...opened up a new exciting world to this young wife and mother. Suddenly, she was "meeting" and being praised by artistic young men in wonderful cities around the world. Her hard working husband of 14 years may have suddenly seemed dull to her.
IMO, this trip was as much about meeting these artistic new friends...enetering into this "artsy" world where she suddenly fit in and found praise and excitement. She thought she "knew" these people, but , in online relationships, how much can you really know? I think she decided to meet the most fascinating of these online friends in their cities, even if she had to sleep on a couch in a strangers home. I think this may be why the friend backed out.
SS knew only that these were artistic young men who shared her love of photography. Sheknew nothing of their temperment, criminal history, etc. I can see the glamour of this to a beautiful young woman who perhaps married too young and never explored her own talents before. She was besotted by the whole artistic side of these men. Maybe she did not want romance, but there is "romance" in this kind of blindness.
These men she visited were the ones that probably fascinated her most...they appear to be young, attractive students. She was not meeting anyone's grandfather though surely there are some fabulous photographers in every age group.
The fact that she was coming home early may indicate she was missing her REAL life. I don't think anyone necessarily wanted to force her to stay. It might just be temper, or emotional issues etc...all things easily disguised in an online personality.
This might have happened meeting some strange artist in Kansas. She just thought that knowing they also loved photography, was all she needed to know.
Few things I missed from new reports (I think they updated the page)
Blood samples from 22 people was sent to forensic medicine institution. There are 3 Iranians (2 women) among these 22. Also Taylan too.
The police is continuing their search at the area. All passasges, corridors in the walls would be searched carefully and it will take at least 10 days.
Pathological samples, hair and tissue samples are in criminal labs.
LE is trying hard to find her ipad and phone. And its been expected her email archive to be sent today and tomorrow. Says normally it would take much longer but LE expedited the process.
Maybe it is still early to say this but so far Turkish LE's work is impressive and Turkish press is a huge failure.
TOUTCA, I am also very impressed your search within turkish reports.![]()
I know Taylan seems obvious because of the correspondence, but we haven't heard a thing about these other ones.
I've asked this earlier today but I want to bring it up again:
How do you meet with someone in instagram? You comment on each others photos and then what ??? How do you go to the next stage (e.g. how do you give your email address?) Is there a messaging facility?
Could she have been deleting the more... uh... "exciting" emails/texts/IMs? Many people delete messages as they go, and don't just leave them in their inboxes for any length of time- specifically so others don't see them. I'm not saying that's what happened here, but it is possible.
I've asked this earlier today but I want to bring it up again:
How do you meet with someone in instagram? You comment on each others photos and then what ??? How do you go to the next stage (e.g. how do you give your email address?) Is there a messaging facility?
lavy said:I've asked this earlier today but I want to bring it up again:
How do you meet with someone in instagram? You comment on each others photos and then what ??? How do you go to the next stage (e.g. how do you give your email address?) Is there a messaging facility?
Perhaps the violence wasnt about making a move and being denied but rather an argument started when he found out she was leaving that day.... Five blows to the head really sounds like "your not going anywhere, and if I can't have you no one can" kind of rage.
I've asked this earlier today but I want to bring it up again:
How do you meet with someone in instagram? You comment on each others photos and then what ??? How do you go to the next stage (e.g. how do you give your email address?) Is there a messaging facility?
I agree with your theory of how the crime occurred -- excellent description of how it could have happened! I just think the most likely IG'er to perpetrate it was Taylan. After all, we know he was there and had come there to see SS.
The crime scene, if current reporting is correct, reads to me like a crime of passion by a jealous, humiliated man. Overkill, beating her on the head with more blows than needed to subdue the victim, cuts and bruises all over the body... And then the attempt to "hide" from the shame of what he had done -- severe injuries to face so that it was unrecognizable, lame attempt to "hide" the body under debris...
It just reminds me of FBI profiles of jealous lovers or wannabe lovers (a) reacting violently to a rejection of some sort and (b) bizarrely and ineffectually trying to deny their own violent act (ruining face of the victim, lame attempt to hide body, etc.).
My theory is that this was one guy and not a group. I think they're testing everyone remotely suspect not because they think it was a group, but because they have the power to do so, and they are under pressure to both be thorough and solve this quickly. But if I'm wrong, the DNA at the scene should show it and I'm more than willing to eat crow!
I believe it is a jealous, violent man whose desire was thwarted. If it was not Taylan, he is the unluckiest guy in the world. But sure, it is possible it was another IG'er or Istanbul pal she met up with if she couldn't find Taylan.
I think the kill was more about violence, power and control rather than romance. And I do believe Taylan is involved.
My suspicions lay with Taylan not only because of the correspondence, but because he was supposed to meet up with her the exact day, at almost exactly the same time, in exactly the same place where she disappeared. I know it's not be 100% verified yet, but Turkish media is claiming that she met her murderer at that spot, at that time, but just happened to do so in a blind so, so the cameras didn't pick up his identity.
Even by his own statement, he was there around that time- he just claims he couldn't find her and therefore didn't meet up with her. In addition, his behavior after SS vanished, after her husband contacted him re: whether he knew where she was. He immediately deleted his Gmail account.
Overall, it's too much to swallow for me. You know the old saying: If it walks like a duck...
Anyway, MOO!
Even if she deleted them from her devices, the service providers would have copies of the texts, emails, etc. on their server databases. The service providers do expunge their databases after a certain amount of time, so LE best get to serving a warrant to obtain those messages.