When someone is beaten in the face until they are unrecognizable, that seems to me like a rage killing. Somehow it does not fit with two strangers struggling over an Ipad...or even an attempted rape. Someone was destroying her.
The alternative, of course, is that destroying her face served a purpose. Leaving her license there seems to say..."Here she is." ...no issues identifying this terribly beaten woman.
In regard to Taylan, I am not surprised at his reactions. Perhaps he flirts on the Internet for a little entertainment. It feels safe. He may not have thought that any of these women would come to Turkey and try to intrude on his "real life." Once SS was in Istanbul, he did not make himself very available. Then suddenly, her husband calls him and she has gone missing. He may have been both frightened and angry to be pulled into a mess by an Internet flirtation that this woman from NYC took way too seriously.
I do believe there is a reason SS was wearing her pretty hair down and dressed attractively that last day. I don't think she was thinking of her kids. These were her last hours of her dream trip. She had several hundred dollars left....but it was in her room. She could have used it to see some sights, take a tour, or buy souvenirs, gifts for hr children.
I think she was reaching out to her Internet "friends" or someone that day. Taylan may not have been the only one she called. I think she was meeting someone that she wanted to look attractive for. Maybe she walked somewhere with that person and then he left her to find her own way back to her room.Or he killed her.
And this could be where the "criminal element" comes in. I think these FBI sources that spoke to the media were indicating that the evidence shows this case to be much more complicated than it seems. Some of you wonderful posters have deduced that from the limited information we have, and they have much, much more. In a way, they were saying that this case is NOT about crime in Istanbul, or women traveling alone, or any of those early distractions. SS may have met these members of the criminal element innocently enough. They may have fooled her into doing something, delivering something, that brought her into the middle of something dangerous. Reading those comments about scams against women traveling alone perpetrating by charming young men...made me think again that SS was at a time in her life where she seemed ready to take risks to meet charming attractive men. She would have been vulnerable IMO.
I have to agree with much of what you wrote. I was thinking about SS's IG friends and how they were the ones who kept trying to convince her about coming to Istanbul.
Before I continue too much I just want to emphasize that Istanbul is NOT inherently dangerous. And the dangers I am going to mention in a moment are ones that are easily avoidable, simply by not trusting strangers, you ignore strangers, you look street smart, you avoid these dangers.
Ok so in my experience there are many men out there in Istanbul (by no means the majority of Turkish men) who will try to scam a naive tourist. My Turkish "sister" would always warn me, "don't trust someone who invites you for tea on the street, don't trust someone who tries to pick you up online, don't trust the men who hit on you near Sultanhmet square, they work in the tourist industry, have little money, and are only after one of two things sex or money, don't tell anyone where you live, don't worry about being polite, if someone is harassing you tell a cop."
I can't tell you how many times while living there, that I was approached for a coffee at Starbucks, or a tea here, asked if they could take me to dinner. But I always said no and walked away. Even when eating out at a place in Sultanhamet I would be harassed by waiters saying "will you be my English tutor, where do you live, let's be friends, my friends and I are going to the islands tomorrow come with us." Even online...even now when I am back in the US, simply because I have tons of pictures from Turkey, and some Turkish friends I am always getting Facebook request from random Turkish men asking to be my friends and to come visit them in Turkey. Just the other day a Turkish man face booked me, I looked at his profile literally every single one of his Facebook friends was so dolled up Russian girl. It was creepy.
This stuff doesn't scare me though, because I never say yes, and I always just know how to walk away from the situation. But Turkish men like to use their words well, and to an American female will seem sweet, affectionate, cute, funny, and charming. When you say no they say "oh but you break my heart, no dinner, but I will be all alone, how about just a coffee then?" For every guy like this, there is another guys nearby who will say "oh don't trust him, trust me".
Most of this is also just flirty in jest for fun. But you never know when it will be the person who has more malicious intentions. Because it is these very same tactics that suck a tourist into traps to scam them.
Which brings me to Sarai, and I will say most people in Turkey are wonderful, but I always felt a little suscpicious about the fact that she had several Turkish IG friends who were contacting her through an online forum and trying to convince an American girl to come to Turkey alone. It's my hunch that the type of men that would reach out to a random American girl online and try to convince her to come to Turkey, might be the type of Turkish men with more impure intentions.
Which is why I still strongly believe one or some combination of her IG friends is involved in her death. I'm not sure exactly what kind of scam they/he may have gotten her in....but I've just always been suspicious of this angle.
I hope that wasnt too confusing. Sometimes you just have a hunch for something based on your own experience, and its not always easy to put it into words.