Penelope
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I am the mom of 4 young adult kids....and once my kids got in 4th - 5th grade, I didn't check on them in the night. There wasn't really a reason to check on them. The doors were locked and they were fed and safe. Now, I might check on them if they were sick. Otherwise I did not.
I think I was a great mom...I was a stay-at-home mom who drove her kids to and from school each day and even homeschooled a couple years. But I didn't get up in the night to check on the kiddos. Why would Billie check on Hailey while she was in bed? I guess some moms do that but I don't think she did....unless she was worried about something.
I believe she said she looked in on her in the morning, before she left to go to work. Now, it is my opinion that she did not check on her, that she made that up because she did not want anyone to think she was a bad mom.
I don't have any children living with me right now, but I do have 3 dogs and a cat. I always "check" on them before I go to work -- every day. If I had a child, I would do the same. I just want to know they are there -- and okay.