It's a sad world if step dads can't bathe step children without people throwing out accusations. If she had suspicions, of course bells would ring...but in which case, why would she allow him near any of her kids?
Yes, why?
It's a sad world if step dads can't bathe step children without people throwing out accusations. If she had suspicions, of course bells would ring...but in which case, why would she allow him near any of her kids?
This is very curious/interesting to me. I’ve wondered about this because *if* (JMO) she did know more about what happened or was there when something did transpire, wouldn’t DV have turned on her, and used that as leverage/reasonable doubt? Might be jumping too far ahead to trial strategy or plea deal considerations, but the dynamics between the two of them and how things have played out with them thus far have just surprised me.@3:16
Just learning that there were visible drops of blood. BB was there, she called to be let inside, and she does not tell them about the fight, pictures, and the threatening messages, (I'm not so sure there were any.), after there is blood found in her apt., the child has been abused by him, and she's missing now. Iirc, she even defended him after that. Maybe he's had her under his thumb, but she never has spoken of any abuse towards her. Emotional nor physical.
Yes, when I first saw that picture I thought it couldn't possibly be the same person. But you can tell by her eyes that it is.
So many times this. I fundamentally disagree with there being something wrong with a stepfather bathing a child. In my mind, it has more to do with the person in question, specifically, and less to do with his status as a stepfather.
wow. That have him on camera, leaving for the airport, supposedly, and only he and the 2 yr old are walking out out to the car, not Maleah.Here is the doc, I purchased from Harris Co clerk.
Several members have speculated that he has visible red (possible blood) on the leg of his pants in the video still shot of him carrying the laundry basket outside apartment. I concluded he is wearing pants similar to this pair but that is JMO and I could be mistaken.Just randomly jumping in here...have we talked about what looks like blood on his pants?
Yes, the only reason I’m hesitant to fully jump into that line of reasoning is because in my line of work, I’ve seen parents falsely accuse another parent (step or biological) of that sort of thing for a variety of reasons. JMO. It’s hard for me to believe anything she says. One second he’s gay, the next potentially a pedophile (based on her insinuations). Just seems to be all over the map and more of a deflection than anything else.I interpret as she was aware he had sexual interest in the child. Jmo, of course.
The aunt is the biofather's sister. So they may have both come to pick up the oldest son, and were told they couldn't see her because she was sick. JMOrsbm
I don't have time to look for an actual link, so this is just by my memory - but no. I seem to remember it was an aunt who was told she couldn't see (pick up?) Maleah.
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I have just the opposite.....when you have several young children to bath you throw them in there together. The Quanell video infuriated me with this topic. To use a basic necessity as bathing without actually saying molestation occurred was ridiculous! He was just a distraction with full knowledge that he was assisting something sinister. He should be ashamed of himself!!I guess everyone has to decide what works in their household. If my child needed to wear a helmet due to severe head trauma, I’d do all bathing, a tub is slippery when wet.
I personally have no male friends that would even contemplate bathing a girl that is not their own child.
Jmo
.Yes, when I first saw that picture I thought it couldn't possibly be the same person. But you can tell by her eyes that it is.
I wonder what year that was taken. Maybe they have been together for longer than 3 or 4 years?
Thanks Pommy! Such a beautiful, innocent child who deserved to spend Mothers Day with a loving and responsible mother.
It's been linked that DV bathed Maleah? Can anyone else help with a source for this?
Agreed. If they were left in his care, it would be neglectful of him not to bath them IMO.I have just the opposite.....when you have several young children to bath you throw them in there together. The Quanell video infuriated me with this topic. To use a basic necessity as bathing without actually saying molestation occurred was ridiculous! He was just a distraction with full knowledge that he was assisting something sinister. He should be ashamed of himself!!
IMO there's a reason we have never been told what time BB left...by LE and by BB.
If she was in the clear, I'm sure we would know by now. We would have known as soon as we found out there was camera footage.
I'll stop there. Hopefully somethings i've read locally will come out soon.
It really doesn’t matter. People are slick. They know when to expect CPS, the house & kids are all cleaned up, fridge is stocked & it looks like the Brady Bunch home. Or, like in the AJ case, the parent says the kid is sleeping (which might imply he’s in recovery from his last beating). Even if they checked 3X a day, an abuser can find ways. Ply a kid with candy or ice cream, he’ll look like the happiest kid on the block. Abuse does not have to leave marks. In my town, the head honcho at CPS has the nastiest houses in her subdivision. She lives in deplorable conditions, so she expects less or doesn’t recognize what another person might. To be fair, I do think the judge makes his decision based on CPS findings.
Yes, the only reason I’m hesitant to fully jump into that line of reasoning is because in my line of work, I’ve seen parents falsely accuse another parent (step or biological) of that sort of thing for a variety of reasons. JMO. It’s hard for me to believe anything she says. One second he’s gay, the next potentially a pedophile (based on her insinuations). Just seems to be all over the map and more of a deflection than anything else.
Oh. Where can I get some of those?Those are called filters. People use them all the time, almost makes them unrecognizable
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It sounds like she was trying to insinuate anything she could to smear him and make herself look like a victim because a) she knew things were starting to unravel with his story or b) she knew more about what actually happened with M. JMO.