Oh, okay now I understand. Thanks! .....
(Snipped by me)
If he does/did have a mistress then I don't get why he'd be so enraged at BB's threat to break off their relationship. If he wanted to stay in the relationship wouldn't he have done the opposite? IOW, instead of sending disturbing texts wouldn't he be trying to convince her that he loved her?
And if he no longer wanted to be in the relationship then why was he angry? It makes no sense to me. But then the actions of people like DV never make sense.