I have to say that I too was pulled over years ago. I was told that I didn't come to a complete stop at a four (4) way stop. I was two (2) blocks from my house so I went there. It was at the end of the day, about 6:00. The week before I was at kings dominion for the weekend with my daughter, she was about 6 years old at the time. With that being said I had changed out my purse for a fanny pack(snap around the waist pouch) and did not transfer over my registration for my car. As I was looking for my registration he saw my cigs and said to me that I shouldn't smoke because it would stunt my growth. I was 5'7" and he looked up at me, he was maybe 5'6". It took all I had not to say something. He would not allow me to go in my home (I was parked in front of it) to get the registration out of my purse. So I did not get a ticket for going through a stop, I got a ticket for not having my registration. I could have caused a scene about that and the fact that he scolded me for smoking but I let it go. And I paid the ticket, it wasn't worth missing work at the time. jmo All she had to do was put the cig out. jmo idk
I was driving home from a friend's house one night- late-ish, but not late. Maybe 11 pm.
The road was a narrow two-lane that was very curvy with a lake on one side and a high hill on the other. No one else on the road. I am totally sober and not at all tired. But I am driving slowly (speed limit is 35, for good reason).
A car gets right up on my tail and the lights are blinding me. My car was a low-slung two-seater so the other car's headlights were bouncing off my rear-view.
Blinded and a little nervous as a woman alone at night, I slow down even more, abd as I got into town, I pulled over in the lot of a closed gas station to let the other car pass me. Turns out it was a police car.
The officer wanted to know why I was driving so slow (I told him I was going the speed limit, then slowed because his lights were blinding me), and why I pulled over (told him because I did not know he was the police and since he was tailing me so close, I wanted to let him pass so I could see to drive home). He just kept asking me "well why were you scared?" (Um DUH!!), and "why were you having trouble seeing?", like I hadn't already answered him! And he was kind of smirky like he thought it was ridiculous that I was afraid of being blinded on a dangerous road.
I had to get out of my car (which now I know I will NEVER do again), and take a field sobriety test, which I passed no problem. I was furious because my "erratic" driving was because I had another driver behaving in an aggressive and unsafe manner and potentially jeopardizing MY safety, but since the other driver was the officer that was making me take a sobriety test, I stifled myself.
I was let go with no apologies, no acknowledgement that he was tailgating me on a dangerous two-lane lakeshore road- nothing. He seemed almost disappointed that I wasn't drunk. I think he wanted me to get angry which is why he kept asking the same stuff over and over, and probably why he made me walk the line.
That said, I was very young and was not aware that just because a cop does/says it, does not make it right. Nor was I mature enough or knowledgeable enough to assert my rights and not comply with a request that I am under no legal obligation to follow. And just because an officer DOES get a rise out of someone (which I think was the case with SB), does not mean a law has been broken.
Yes, in my case I choked back my anger, but why should any citizen have to endure being picked on and hassled just because the bully wears a badge? Poppycock.